Dream About Losing Friend Husband Leaving

I was at my sister's waking up with some of my friends from back in high school and my husband. My mother was being arguementive as we had left with my sister somewhere and then ended up at her house. I was tired and we all fell asleep late and while we were all waking up we had planned to drive the truck back home with no issues. We were just trying to get some rest. I get woken up by one of my friends and they tell me that one of them past away and that left a sore spot on my heart. I leaned towards my husband at the time to help me grieve through it and I remember talking with all my friends about how angry we were that he had done killed himself . That he could have gone far in life. Me and my husband were talking and as I was trying to organize our things my friend comes up to me after my husband left to go do something at work that made him have to leave for a few days, I was asked that the driver was here to pick all of us up. I was pissed because I knew that my husband dad and my mother planned it and got impatient as far as when it came to me going home. I was hurt by losing a friend then my husband having to leave for the work trip, etc. I just wanted some time and peace and a little bit of time to spend with my other friends before going home later that night. My husband's dad was there making sure that I was packing and getting ready to leave. I was trying to sort out some crystals and place them back on my sisters self and stood up on the bed and saw what looked to be a giant moldivite crystal piece on my sisters aquarium. I looked closer and realized the crystal was actually an aquarium full of minnows sitting on the side on top of another partially full aquarium with no fish. I thought it was strange and unique but didn't judge. The water inside the aquarium was green, but looked beautiful either way. I started bending over and picking up clothes and felt really sad and my eyes burned with tears. One of my friends came back and stated it's ok we were able to switch for a later time! I still was not happy this was going on and proceeded to get my clothes in my basket. I tried finding the socks I put on and while doing so overheard my husband's dad show up talking with my friends. As they were trying to to defend me and tell him to wait one of them gentely tried to nudge me to get things together. I snapped and said I was, but needed a little more time as I was trying to find my socks to put my shoes on. I finally did gathered my stuff and walked down towards the back of my sisters home looking at some crystalized figurines and remember breaking down crying over the stress. Then I overheard my husband dad on the phone with my mother talking shit about how im ungrategul and that i should have been more responsible and not dumped my kids on them. They both ended up getting into a fight and at that point I lost it. I screamed at them can we please not be fighting and proceeded to continue to cry. Then I started getting angry and voiced out that its not fair for her to judge me over things I do in my life, but she could go off and do a bunch of things without even asking me to watch my neices that she was suppose to watch during the time I was living with her. I was hurt mad and felt betrayed. I woke up still upset over the thoughts and events in the dreams about my husband dad and my mothers actions.