Dream About Ex Boyfriend Destroying House

I had a dream I was sleeping in the bed with my daughter and I was dreaming. In the dream my daughter was being kidnapped and I was screaming and crying then I woke up from the dream. I was still in the dream and my ex boyfriend came into my room. I asked him how did he get into my house and he said my son let him in. He looked drunked and confused and i asked him to leave. He also had a man with him that was his friend. I did not like that he came to my house unannouced with a friend . Then he said him and his friend just wanted to hang out because they had nowhere else to go . I later found out he brought his girlfriend over to my house as well. This made me really angry so i went downstairs to find out if this was true. I went downstairs and his girlfriend was siting in my living room on my couch. As soon as she saw me she got up to run and i grabbed her and starting beating her up. In the dream i was fat and ugly with no hair! . I grabbed his girlfriend by her hair and threw her out of my house. She said she didnt want to fight me because she thought i was pregnant. The police came and my house was a diaster. My ex and his girlfriend destroyed my house and i was so upset. I called my mother in law and told her what happend and she came over. I decided to leave and take a walk then i bumped into my pastor and me and him were walking and ended up in the mall. He bought me a beautiful purple dress. I put the dress on and it turned black. Then i met this girl in the bathroom and gave her a hug while we were doing our hair.