I've been out with Mark and he had been helping me move my mom's belongings and also cleaning up the yard and landscape after she died. It is a mild afternoon and Mark is his pickup truck full of stuff with another guy helping, and he asks me to get him something to drink. He hands me some cash that I take but at first try to give him back but he refuses. 

I go to the food place and want to also get something to eat. I forgot what Mark ordered but decide to rely on thr menu board on the wall to refresh my memory. As I'm waiting, other servers at the big counter are explaining to women in front of me that the costs are comparable to beverages at other places.  They have a series of drink sizes which looks to be an individual glass size or a bowl size that would be for several people. The women already know this about the prices and no one is impressed but we all accept the cost of things. 

I vacillate on food as I wait and finally determine that I'll just get the drinks. Mark wanted a prepared drink that is something like a slush. I read the flavor choices and there is chocolate and aqua or Agua and several other options. I think I'll get three different ones and then Mark can select the one he wants most, I'm pretty sure it's aqua or Agua. And the other guy and I can have the rest. I'll use some of Mark's money and some of my own. 

I must have returned because now I see my brother with another guy in a pickup truck telling me he's helped himself to all my pots and pans from my bedroom at my parents old house and they want to give them to a buddy who's now got his own place. I say no, those are mine and please move them with my things but I offer to go through them and find some suitable for their friend. They seem to be willing to comply. 

Then I am back at the house which used to be my parents house and I am in the process of emptying it out. It is also a crime scene of what seems multiple nefarious things like theft, but none very violent or extreme that I am aware of.  My uncle Micky is there thinking he's helping out, but he's just trying to make himself important really, and he is misunderstanding everything and interrogating me. 

Apparently while I had been out moving things with Mark and my brother also moving things, my uncle has called to report my pots and pans missing. At first when he tells me, I'm grateful that he called the police to report it and I say "thank you" because this time it's nor only me reporting what's wrong and been stolen, but I quickly realize he's mistaken. 

As we are talking, I'm explaining to him how my parents had relied on me to do all the home repairs and it was a never-ending effort. I say how I'd repaired ceilings and walls and done alot of physical work but some of the problems were too big and I'd not had a chance to finish. Instead of understanding me, he just criticizes me more though, and tells me the house and all the walls are a mess. When I tell him my parents never paid me, that initially seems to pique his attention and possible empathy, but he quickly turns it into more condemnation of me and implies I was a freeloader because my parents let me stay with them yet I never finished what they needed me to do. And I also try to help him understand by comparing my results to all I'd done at my mom's last home at Wallace Avenue, which I'd renovated entirely by myself for her to live comfortably [by reconfigured the kitchen, adding a second bathroom with walk-in tub, adding a ramp to front door, and lots of other repairs] and I mention I'd painted all those walls there. 

My uncle is stuck up, snooty and self-centered. He didn't understand my parents and he doesn't understand me. He is judging based on his own assumptions and likely projections but I know he's wrong about me and my family. I don't even bother telling him about my brother and the pots and pans, as I'd rather just talk with the police when they arrive. 

Meanwhile, my uncle criticizes old wallpaper on the walls and two holes in the floor near the entrance. The wallpaper was only a cosmetic issue and I know we--mostly me--was handling the bigger structural priorities in the right order of things, so I ignore his wallpaper comments. But I'm confused about the holes and since so many things have already been moved, I'm having to struggle to remember exactly what might have been affixed to the floor right there and ripped out. I am also grappling with coming to terms with fully realizing how much pressure and expectation my parents put on me to heal and fix their problems instead of focusing on my own life. And I somehow realize that I am the one left unsettled and moving around trying to navigate where I can be safe and secure. Either way, I will figure it all out, as I'm the one keeping track of everything. 

The holes are perfect square shapes and there must have been a bookcase there. I will get to the bottom of it. I know it will come to me. 

The police come and there are many people surrounding the house and investigating us. They take their time and go in their own order. They'd already gotten my uncle's statement. Then my brother walks by smug and smiling that he has answered all their questions and seems to have told him his also limited view of things.  [Somehow my brother resembles Cole, a young smart man with dark curly hair and glasses in my writing group who had taught me the phrase "creative nonfiction, and his bubbly smirking expression also reminds me of Ed a former mental patient I had worked with many years ago who had been raised by his grandmother and later tried to poison a college classmate with rat poison when he was living in the dormitory. ] Between my uncle and my brother's likely stories, it likely looks sketchy and probably makes me look bad. 

I help a female plain clothes investigator who has arrived now to navigate the front steps and deck at the entrance to the house. There's a flat part in between the levels, which is a narrow passage way without any railing that might be slippery, so I advise her safely. She has shoulder length hair that is light brown and I think she has glasses on a cord around her neck and maybe her ID as well. She is subdued, professional and seems nice. 

I wait until they call me in to sit down in the living room and answer their questions. I tell them I think I can straighten things out, as they make comments that the stories don't add up. 

Then I am called into the living room. As I'm sitting in front of the woman investigator, other police investigators come in and sit near me. They are wearing brown suits with skinny brown ties and white shirts. They are plain white men who look nondescript except that they could have been in an undercover role in the 1950s in a movie or real life. And they all seem to be taking mental notes. 

I think my brother and my uncle are there in the same room now, too. Someone says something about the order of events and that it's Saturday. I am confused because I hadn't realized it was Saturday already, and I'm trying to get oriented to the right day it is but no one is helping me. The woman is also organizing her notes on a clipboard. 

 I don't want to answer questions inaccurately, and I speak up again for clarification of today's day of the week but I'm being ignored. My uncle Micky finally says to me that it is "Saturday the 23rd," and casually adds "Mardi Gras," and I find that date in my phone calendar right away. Now I am satisfied that I know what day it is and I can answer the questions fully and bring illumination.   

I'm about to explain the sequence of events to the investigators and explain it all to them that different people are working on emptying the house and the pots and pans are just a misunderstanding. All of a sudden, the two men sitting next to me in the brown suits have their heads both explode, except what had been their heads seemed to morph first into even plainer round white spheres more like big water balloons, which started to swell and burst with a bang, caused a big fog, then dissipated right away. Everyone is stunned that their heads exploded except me. Though I had not expected that happening, I'm not surprised as little surprises me in this house now. And in a way it seems a comfort to me to have other witnesses now to see the violent and shocking display. 

Someone makes a comment about ghost possession and I nod to offer soft agreement. But really I don't think the men themselves are ghosts. While there may have been supernatural intervention that had their heads blow off at that precise time, I suspect the underlying issue is that they had only been robots to begin with. I'm not afraid of ghosts or robots or really anything. I just don't like the misunderstandings and judgements, but I realize once again, that I'm the strongest and least ruffled person here. And I'm the one to sort it out and make sense of it for others.

The dream was somewhat fragmented, shifting from moving tasks to family disputes and then to an investigation.

Sorting Through Chaos: A Day of Moving and Misunderstandings

The dream had an emotional tone of frustration and determination as I navigated through family misunderstandings and criticisms.

The intensity was high, especially during moments of conflict and the sudden surreal event of the heads exploding.

While many elements like moving items and family interactions were realistic, the exploding heads were surreal.

The dream was moderately vivid, with some details like the investigators' appearance being clearer than others.

Sandra, your dream is a vivid tapestry of emotions and responsibilities that weave through the threads of your waking life. The presence of Mark, assisting you in moving your mother's belongings, signifies a partnership or support system that you might be longing for or currently appreciating. His refusal to take back the money is a reflection of trust and shared responsibility, yet it also hints at a subtle balance of power and the dynamics of give-and-take in relationships. This interaction at the outset of your dream sets the stage for an exploration of your own boundaries and the roles you assume in different relationships.

  As you navigate the food place, the confusion over Mark's order and the contemplation over the cost of beverages suggests a deeper reflection on decisions and the value you place on your choices. The act of juggling between different drink options, using both Mark's money and your own, mirrors a negotiation within yourself about independence and shared experiences. The presence of the women at the counter, acknowledging but not impressed by the prices, indicates a societal pressure or expectation that you feel you must meet, yet you internally question its validity.

  The incident with your brother taking your pots and pans without permission is a clear manifestation of boundaries being crossed and possessions being appropriated without consent. Your stand to reclaim what is yours and offering a compromise speaks to your ability to assert yourself while still maintaining relationships. The theme of negotiation and reclaiming autonomy is prevalent here, as you navigate familial obligations and personal ownership. Your uncle's interference and misunderstanding further exacerbate this theme of miscommunication and the struggle for validation.

  The portrayal of your parents' home as a crime scene, coupled with your uncle's interrogation, reflects a deep-seated tension and the burden of unresolved familial duties. The dream amplifies your awareness of the expectations placed upon you and the consequent judgment from family members, particularly when you have strived to meet those expectations without acknowledgment or reward. Your uncle's criticisms and the comparison to your work on Wallace Avenue highlight a contrast between your achievements and the constant scrutiny you face, reinforcing the feeling of being undervalued.

  The climactic scene with the police investigation, complete with the surreal explosion of the investigators' heads, strikes as a symbolic release of pent-up frustrations and the absurdity of the judgments you've endured. The suggestion of ghost possession and the notion of robots represent the impersonal and detached nature of the criticisms you face, as if they lack genuine understanding or empathy. Yet, amidst the chaos, your calm demeanor and realization of your own strength underscore your resilience. This dream is a profound journey through your psyche, revealing the complex interplay of duty, independence, and self-worth in your life. It invites you to acknowledge and embrace your strength as the one who navigates these challenges with clarity and resolve.

Brother

Drink

Ghost

House

Kitchen

Money

Police

Robot

Truck

Uncle

Dream About Moving And Family Conflict 2

I was with my mom and sister Julie we were in the living room and grey my cat was a tinny kitten again he was peeping and pooping a lot around the living room so, I looked at his litter box and it was filthy. I was trying to take a shower with him. Then it switches to my mom and Julie in the garage cleaning out old and broken stuff, I was so clumsy in there with them I kept breaking things my mom wanted to keep, but she wasn’t mad she was forgiving. I then get a text from Linda (who in my dream is still dead) I started getting so happy and excited that she was communicating from the other side. Julie then became upset, telling me and my mom that it can’t be from linda because she died, my mom and still believed it was from her. Then as we are walk back into this house, the inside now looked foreign to me, like it was my grandma that passed (in real life my grandma was an evil woman and abusive to my mom and siblings). I immediately felt bad vibes all around me, then God let’s come to visit us on earth. Me, my mom and Julie are all on the same page we were hugging her and so grateful for the time God was giving her with us. She looked around the house and we could see my other 94 year old grandma but she looked evil and her face was distorted. Linda looked at me and said she was happy the lord took her and she was so happy and comforted by being in heaven with god. She said she’s sorry we still have evil and bad things to deal with. We all went outside to walk to get food from some fast food restaurant. As I looked behind I couldn’t see Linda. I thought her time was done with us. As we are walking back home, I looked behind us and Linda was in the distance walking behind us, like god just plopped her back to us but we’re blind to her dissension from heaven back to us. When we get to my parents front gate Linda has a drink with her and she said it was bad, that her and the employees at the restaurant discovered this severed thumb that had turned black in color. She said it was ugly to see but she had thrown it out. I sensed Linda was about to leave back to heaven and I felt that God knew we all missed each other and it was way of letting us know she is around watching out for us.

The narrative flowed well with transitions between scenes, although some elements felt disjointed, particularly the sudden appearance of the severed thumb.

Communicating with the Other Side

The dream carried a sense of joy and hope, especially when receiving a message from Linda, despite the underlying sadness of her passing.

The intensity peaked during moments of connection with Linda, creating feelings of happiness and urgency as her presence felt fleeting.

The setting felt familiar yet strange, shifting from the living room to the garage and back, reflecting a blend of reality and surreal elements.

The dream was highly vivid, particularly in the portrayal of the cat and the contrasting emotions of comfort and fear when encountering family members.

Mary, your dream weaves together complex emotions and themes, reflecting your relationships with family, loss, and the interplay between the past and the present. Starting with the scene in the living room with your mom and sister Julie, it indicates a sense of comfort and familiarity, but also perhaps a feeling of being overwhelmed, especially with your cat, Grey, reverting to a tiny kitten. The kitten symbolizes innocence and vulnerability, while its messiness in the litter box may represent unresolved issues or feelings that need cleaning up in your life. Your desire to take a shower with him suggests a longing for purity and a fresh start in some aspects of your life, perhaps indicating that you are seeking clarity amidst the chaos.

  As the dream transitions to you and your family cleaning out the garage, this symbolizes a process of decluttering your emotional space. The broken items may represent memories or past experiences that are no longer useful, and your clumsiness in breaking things reflects a fear of making mistakes or not being able to fully honor the past. Your mother's forgiveness indicates a nurturing presence in your life, suggesting that despite your fears of failure, there is acceptance and love surrounding you. This could also mirror a desire for reconciliation with your past, where you seek to understand and forgive both yourself and those around you.

  The text from Linda, who you know to be deceased, introduces a profound intersection of grief and joy. Your excitement at her communication signifies a deep yearning for connection with those who have passed, while Julie's skepticism points to the tension between hope and reality. This part of the dream illustrates the complexities of dealing with loss, where the desire for signs from loved ones can sometimes clash with the starkness of their absence. Your mother's belief in Linda’s presence may represent a hopeful outlook on life, while Julie's reaction highlights a protective instinct against disappointment.

  The transition to a house that feels foreign, linked to your grandmother's negative memories, brings forth feelings of discomfort and perhaps fear related to your family’s past. It’s as if your subconscious is processing the unresolved trauma associated with her abusive nature, projecting those feelings onto the space that should feel safe. Linda's comforting presence in the dream signifies a nurturing force amidst the evil you associate with your grandmother, suggesting that love and support can still exist in the face of past trauma.

Family

Food

Grandmother

Text message

Dream About Communicating With Deceased Loved Ones

I turned in some camping gear to the boatyard. We were in this basement sort of place and Salvador was very busy and rushing around. He sort of acknowledged me and I wasn’t sure if he’d want to talk or not. He did say hey Kristin can I talk to you for a sec. And he said the gear I turned in was kinda messed up, like it had a bump on it and water spilled all over it. I think I’d hastily packed a 5 gallon water jug that spilled. Then he said things were hectic at home cause his wife stopped breastfeeding. I jokingly asked if he was breastfeeding instead and he laughed and said no. Then he said he didn’t mean to cause any harm to me and he hoped he hasn’t done anything to cause too many feelings in me and lead me on. I said he didn’t do anything wrong and I asked if we might be able to be friends again at some point and he said yes. I was happy. My mom was in the corner impatiently waiting and asking where I’d been that she thought I was paying the bill. I don’t know why it was her and not Tom. 

I was in a city and people were practicing paragliding. This woman was simply jumping up and practicing going up and down but she’d only go about 15 feet up. She’d point her toes a certain way to go up and down. I decided to climb a nearby tower to watch better. It was a fun vantage point and Kristie Wenzell was with me - my old school friend. I then had a height panic attack and my palms got sweaty and I thought I would fall. I had to close my eyes and go in a tiny ball in the back of the platform to clear my head. There was a male instructor there also who was very good looking and concerned about me. He’d been demonstrating tandem paragliding and that he was taller and would take care of his passengers. I found him very attractive. He was worried that I couldn’t come down from the tower. Eventually I did, just going slowly and step by step. I just wanted to be near the man as we had chemistry. We were standing at the bar and he bought me a drink. 

Later we were in this large room with a group of people. Tom was there and also Salvador and my mom, plus the handsome paragliding instructor. We were watching some sort of program and elementary school kids were filing in to sing. Tom got up and left cause he didn’t like the sounds of so many children. I wasn’t surprised. The kids started singing and it was beautiful and both Salvador and the handsome paragliding man liked it. The paragliding instructor also liked to play music and had a music book. Mom approved of him and said see, there are men like you out there. 

It was time to leave the party and the paragliding instructor hadn’t asked for my number and I was surprised. I started walking away down a wooden bridge and I felt his feet vibrate on the bridge behind me. He was chasing me down to ask for my number cause we had such a good chemistry. I was so happy and I wondered what my dad and Tom would think.

The coherence was somewhat fragmented, as the dream jumped between different locations and scenarios without clear connections.

Camping Gear and Paragliding Adventure

The dream had an emotional tone of anxiety mixed with happiness, especially when Salvador talked to me and the paragliding instructor showed interest.

The intensity was high, particularly during the height panic attack and the emotional conversations.

The realism was moderate; while the events were somewhat plausible, the transitions between scenes were abrupt.

The dream was quite vivid, with detailed scenes like the busy boatyard, the paragliding practice, and the height of the tower.

Kristin, your dream is a rich tapestry of emotions, interactions, and reflections on your relationships and personal aspirations. The initial scene at the boatyard, where you turned in camping gear to Salvador, symbolizes a need to address unresolved issues or responsibilities. The damaged gear and spilled water suggest that you may be feeling overwhelmed or that certain aspects of your life are not in perfect order. Salvador's acknowledgment of you, coupled with his busy demeanor, indicates that you are seeking validation and recognition in your relationships, perhaps feeling unsure if others truly notice your efforts.

  When Salvador mentions his wife stopping breastfeeding, it introduces a theme of nurturing and care, which might be lacking or changing in your life. Your joke about him breastfeeding and his subsequent laughter show a desire to lighten the mood and maintain a friendly connection despite underlying tensions. His concern about not wanting to lead you on and your reassurance to him indicate that you are navigating complex emotional territories, striving to maintain boundaries while hoping for a deeper connection.

  Your mother's impatience and questioning about your whereabouts reflect internalized pressures and expectations, possibly from familial obligations. Her presence instead of Tom’s might suggest unresolved dynamics or a need for approval that you associate more with your mother than with Tom.

  In the city, observing people practicing paragliding and your decision to climb a tower highlight your aspirations and desire to gain a new perspective. However, your height panic attack and the need to curl up to regain composure signify underlying anxieties and fears of taking risks. The male instructor's concern and your attraction to him indicate a longing for support and a desire to feel protected and understood.

  The final scene at the large room with various significant people in your life, including Tom, Salvador, your mom, and the paragliding instructor, portrays a convergence of different aspects of your life. Tom's departure due to the noise of children singing could symbolize his discomfort with certain emotional expressions or commitments. The children's beautiful singing and the approval from both Salvador and the instructor suggest a recognition of innocence and joy that resonates with you.

  Your mother’s approval of the instructor and her comment about men like him signify a yearning for validation and an acknowledgment of your choices. The instructor chasing you down the bridge to ask for your number, despite your initial surprise, reflects a hopeful longing for an emotional connection and the validation of mutual chemistry.

  Overall, Kristin, your dream weaves together themes of striving for recognition, navigating complex relationships, seeking new perspectives, and yearning for emotional support and validation. Each interaction and scenario within your dream speaks to deeper facets of your inner world, reflecting both your fears and aspirations.

Basement

Breastfeeding a baby

Camping

City

Party

Water

Dream About Paragliding And Reconnecting

Seems like Hong Kong, Shanghai, Taiwan all combined
Slums amidst the skyscrapers that hide most of the firmament
Monorails, looks a bit like Ueno Station, there’s a bus terminal Getting off the train and out the platform and floating down near one of the illegal slum buildings
Roofs are stacked on top of one another, threatening to crush from the top if anything more than a Magnitude 5 or 6 had happened 
Dim flickering fluorescent light tubes and computer’s RGB lighting
Accidentally pressing down on the doorbell(more like window bell but I digress), dropping at the speed of a sparrow going in for the kill because the residents are now trying to sell me shit and chasing me down
Floating and parkouring across the crowded neon lit slummy streets through the sudden downpour
Sliding into the closing cafe-bar shop with preppy bare wooden frames and incandescent light bulbs, kinda tropical
I’m now at a place that looks like the surroundings of Sara’s house blended with the scapes of Kita-Kamakura
Two of the friends are already getting their drink, they greet me and we have a chat, having a color-changing syrupy refreshing drink(probably a cocktail made with butterfly pea tea and something else), mint
Scene changes, now I’m getting home
And home as in going up the rusted helix staircase of the apartment right above the cafe establishment/ethnic apparel-trinket shop

Scene changes and now I’m getting into some condo, a room in some classy, fancy old apartment in Dateo, Italy
Colon Firth is here dressed like a butler or a gentleman
There’s someone else with me and we’re sitting on the bed, turned somewhat child-like
We’re singing something but the keys are off and we get the lyrics kinda wrong
Awkward but fun

The dream had a somewhat coherent storyline but with abrupt scene changes and surreal elements.

Floating Through Neon Slums

A mix of excitement, thrill, and a bit of awkwardness while navigating neon slums and interacting with friends.

High intensity with fast-paced floating, parkour, and sudden scene changes.

The dream felt semi-realistic with recognizable locations but surreal transitions and floating abilities.

Highly vivid with detailed neon lights, crowded streets, and specific locations like Sara's house surroundings.

Hope, your dream is incredibly rich in imagery and symbolism, reflecting a complex interplay of your inner thoughts and experiences. The amalgamation of Hong Kong, Shanghai, and Taiwan into one urban landscape with slums amidst skyscrapers suggests a blend of contrasts in your life, possibly highlighting feelings of being overwhelmed by towering expectations while dealing with underlying uncertainties or insecurities. The reference to Ueno Station and the bus terminal hints at transition and movement, perhaps symbolizing your journey through life’s challenges and opportunities.

  The act of floating near the illegal slum buildings with precariously stacked roofs under dim, flickering lights signifies a sense of instability and danger in your environment, possibly mirroring your own anxieties and fears of collapse under pressure. Dropping at the speed of a sparrow and the ensuing chase by residents trying to sell you things may reflect feelings of being pursued by societal pressures or unwanted responsibilities, creating a sense of urgency and stress.

  Your escape through neon-lit, crowded slummy streets during a sudden downpour could symbolize your attempts to navigate through chaotic and overwhelming situations, seeking refuge from the storm of emotions and external pressures. Sliding into a cozy, tropical cafe-bar with friends signifies a moment of respite and connection, where you find solace and comfort in familiar and supportive relationships. The color-changing syrupy drink with mint might indicate a desire for refreshing and transformative experiences that bring a sense of renewal and joy.

  The shift to a rusted helix staircase leading to an apartment above a cafe or ethnic trinket shop suggests a return to a place of familiarity and comfort, but with an underlying sense of decay or weariness. This could symbolize your efforts to find stability and peace amidst the challenges you face, climbing upwards despite the rust and wear.

Falling

Floating

Friends

Rain

Train

Dream About Neon Lit Slums And Cozy Cafe In Italy

I was high(In the dream not in real life) and wanted to get a refill on snacks and soda so I went into the kitchen, but I kept being blocked by family members and extended family, ending up with a passive-aggressive speech about sharing despite my family eating the things I made and also them judging my clearly high self for not listening properly. I just grabbed my food after a bit and returned to the TV room only to find my dad sitting on the food and being a dick about getting up and not doing that, so I had to hit him in the dick to finally get him to sit up so I could finally go back to relaxing with my food and drink.

The dream had some logical flow but also included disjointed elements

Blocked in the Kitchen

Frustrated and annoyed by family members' behavior

The dream was emotionally intense and impactful

The dream had a surreal and exaggerated feel

The dream was fairly clear and detailed, with some surreal elements

Dream About Family Blocking Me From Getting Snacks

I met Ms. Low in a 7-11, and she gave me Sprite. Ms. Low is a very scary teacher, and I'm scared of her, but for some reason, she seemed really nice that day. Then she said she would walk me home. I was scared but agreed anyway. While walking home, I saw my PE clothes on the MRT roof. Ms. Low said she would climb up to go get them, but I told her it was okay. She refused and climbed up like Spiderman and got the clothes. She then gave them to me, and we walked home by ourselves.

Fragmented and disjointed events, but still having a story-like structure

Meeting Ms. Low in 7-11

A mix of fear and surprise as Ms. Low, a scary teacher, turned out to be unexpectedly nice

Highly intense experience with climbing on MRT roof and unexpected behavior from Ms. Low

Surreal encounter with Ms. Low in an unexpected location

Vivid and clear details of Ms. Low's behavior and climbing up like Spiderman

Climb

Clothes

Fear

Hero

Teacher

Dream Of Ms Low Giving Sprite And Climbing Like Spiderman

I was at my moms house with my boyfriend and found out I had lice. My mom was drunk since she’s an alcoholic so my boyfriend and I decided to go to a hotel. At the hotel I got drinks and saw some of my friends. When I got to my hotel room my boss was there and I showed her my lice and why I couldn’t make it to work.

The dream was moderately coherent, with a clear transition from home to hotel but some disjointed elements.

Lice and Hotel

The dream had a mix of stress and relief, especially when dealing with lice and seeing friends.

The dream was intense, particularly when discovering lice and interacting with the boss.

The setting and events, like being at a hotel and seeing familiar people, felt quite real.

The details were clear, like the appearance of the hotel and the people in it.

Feliz, your dream is rich with symbolic elements that seem to reflect the various facets of your current life and emotional state. Starting at your mom's house with your boyfriend, it could be indicative of a foundational aspect of your life and perhaps some unresolved issues related to family dynamics. The presence of your mother as an alcoholic might signify a chaotic or unstable environment, which could be triggering underlying stress or anxiety. Discovering you had lice in the dream is particularly telling; lice often symbolize feelings of guilt, shame, or something that is bothering you and hard to get rid of. It might be a reflection of negative thoughts or experiences that are persistently troubling you.

  Deciding to go to a hotel with your boyfriend suggests a need to escape or find a temporary refuge from the chaos at home. Hotels in dreams often symbolize transient states, a need for privacy, or a desire for a break from routine. This move could signify your wish for a safe and neutral space where you can relax and possibly work through your issues without external pressures. The act of getting drinks and seeing friends at the hotel might indicate a yearning for social support and a sense of normalcy amidst the upheaval. It shows that you are seeking comfort and distraction from the stressors in your life.

  When you return to the hotel room and find your boss there, this could be a manifestation of work-related stress or perhaps a feeling that your professional life is intruding into your personal space.

Alcohol

Boyfriend

Hotel

Dream About Lice Alcoholic Mom Hotel Boss Encounter

I was at work my boss asked me did I need anything and I said paper so she brought be some so later on she asked me did I need anything again and I said I need paper so later I went to a vending machine a tried to get some sprite but when I selected sprite I got some pink lemonade keto drink and I was made and all of a sudden my bosses sister that I used to go to school with she was a little girl in my dream and she came to work with us and I was training her and I wanted to get away from work for an hr and she was with me so we eneded up going to a church library to watch a movie so we watched the movie and before we knew it  was six a clock and we get off work at 4pm we stayed over the time we were supposed to and my boss will be looking for her sister after work so while we where at the library watching the movie my sister walks in and says hey u not home yet and I was like oh what time is it and she said it’s 6:30pm and I rushed to get my bosses sister out so we can go back to work but I was also wondering how will I explain this and keep my job and as I was wondering that the dream ended. And I work up breathing hard

The dream had a semi-logical flow but included some disjointed elements like the sudden appearance of the boss's sister as a child.

Workplace Chaos and Time Slip

The dream felt stressful and urgent, especially when realizing the time and fearing job consequences.

The intensity was high due to the anxiety about explaining the situation and the rush to get back to work.

The dream had elements of reality like the work environment, but it also had surreal aspects like the vending machine mix-up.

The dream was very vivid, with clear details about the workplace, the vending machine, and the library.

Jalacy, your dream opens with a scene at work where your boss repeatedly asks if you need anything, and you request paper. This repetition could symbolize a feeling of unmet needs or a lack of something essential in your waking life, possibly related to your career or personal goals. Your subconscious might be highlighting a desire for clarity or resources that are not being provided despite asking for them multiple times.

  When you attempt to get a Sprite from the vending machine but receive a pink lemonade keto drink instead, this points to feelings of disappointment and frustration. The unexpected result may reflect current situations where your efforts or desires are met with outcomes that do not align with your expectations. This could be tied to your experiences of stress and anxiety, where you feel that no matter how hard you try, the results are not as anticipated.

  The appearance of your boss’s sister as a little girl whom you used to go to school with and your role in training her suggests a blend of past and present responsibilities. The presence of a younger figure might indicate nostalgia or a longing for simpler times, contrasting with your current pressures. This part of the dream also hints at the nurturing aspect of your personality and perhaps the weight of additional responsibilities you may have taken on recently.

  Escaping to a church library to watch a movie with your boss's sister indicates a need for solace and a break from your demanding work environment.

Church

Library

Little girl

Movie

Paper

Sister

Time

Work

I Dreamt Of Getting Stuck At Work And Rushing To Leave 6pm

My wife, Christi went to visit her old Nanny couple at their home to catch up.  When she arrived the husband was livingroom and the wife was upstairs doing something.  My wife was talking to the husband and catching up on old times. She had on a dress I thought was a little too tight for her to be wearing  while conversing with the opposite sex alone.  I bought this up to her and she said, "oh it was just Chad, he's innocent." I thought if the roles were reversed, I probably would talk to the wife in the livingroom while the husband was upstairs. Then we were in another home and it appeared my wife and were divorced and in new relationships. The four of of were in the home, but only one couple lived there. My new partner was lovey-dovey and very touchy in a loving and caring way.  The guy that was with my ex-wife could not believe that Christi and I were still such good friends. He wanted to know how we were able to remain friends without having animosity. I did not have an answer for him. 

For some reason Christi and I drove the Jeep into town.  I didn't recognize the town. Maybe we were on a vacation?  we're going to go out to eat and I was indecisive about where the park the Jeep.  At first I parked at the end of the corner and then a vehicle behind me moved, so I changed and parked in the middle of the block.  Then a police officer came and advised me to stay clear of the fire hydrant zone.  So I moved forward again to make sure I was out of the fire hydrants zone. We went inside and I wanted to order a special drink I had on a previous vacation or dream.  The drink had a little bit of apple beer, bourbon and pineapple juice. I recall really enjoying the drink but was disappointed that he give me such a small amount in a tall glass. 

Then I was upstairs in a room that looked like a dance studio with desk atound the perimeter.  I saw a extra large greeting card on the table. I opened the card and inside there was information about my surprise birthday shout out.  I quickly closed the card and acted like I didn't see the information.  The build was on a campus that reminded me of my alma mater, Dana College campus. I believe it was Welcome Week because there were all kinds of clubs and organizations present with their information table set up outside.  There was going to be a special moment during the activities that day, when they were going to surprises me and sing Happy Birthday.  I remember going over to one of the tables trying some type of new food it. It was a sweet gelatin in a square shape. Inside the gelatin was 2 or 3 various insects. The combination of insects in each square varied slightly. the gelatin tasted sweet and masked the bitter taste of the insects. The treats were supposed to be a healthy dessert option.  I remember having two of them and they were so good I went back for two more. I had to get off a chartered bus parked on the campus.  We were loading up to go on a trip.  WhennI returned to the bus, I saw an old female friend of ours from the days our boys played youth football.  I gave the lady a hug and asked her where husband was.  I was standing in the aisle talking while she was sitting down by the window seat.  Our conversation was annoying to the people in-between us.  She stood up and asked to switch seats with the guy sitting on the end so we didn't have to converse over the other people.  We started to talk a little bit and then another guy got on the bus. He looked just like Jim Belushi's character John "Bluto" Blutarsky from the movie Animal House. He began singing and drinking a beer  with his moth open.  His mannerisms were 100% like John "Bluto" Blutarsky. We were astonished and how he could take a big sip of beer and sing without swallowing the beer.  When I was on the bus earlier it seemed like folks were taking window seats and putting their duffel bag next to them in the middle seat. Towards the end most of the seats were filled and and it was getting closer to the time for them to sing Happy Birthday to me.

The dream was somewhat disjointed, jumping between different scenes and scenarios.

Reunion, New Relationships, and Birthday Surprise

The dream had a mix of nostalgic warmth, slight jealousy, and joy from unexpected surprises.

The dream was intense with strong emotions ranging from jealousy to joy and surprise.

The dream had realistic elements like familiar people and places but also some fantastical scenarios.

The dream was highly vivid, with detailed settings like the campus and the dance studio.

James, your dream is rich in symbolism and layered with various aspects of your inner life and relationships. The initial part where your wife, Christi, visits her old nanny couple and converses with the husband while wearing a tight dress may reflect underlying feelings of possessiveness or concern about boundaries in your relationship. Your response to her attire and her casual dismissal of your concern ('oh it was just Chad, he's innocent') could suggest a need to address trust and communication in your marriage.

  The transition to a scenario where you and Christi are divorced, yet amicably involved in new relationships, introduces a contemplation of what life would be like if you were no longer together. Your new partner being loving and touchy contrasts with the other man’s curiosity about your continued friendship with Christi, highlighting a notion of emotional security and unresolved feelings. It suggests that despite potential changes, a deep bond and mutual respect persist between you and Christi.

  Driving the Jeep into an unfamiliar town and the indecisiveness about parking may indicate a current phase of uncertainty or transition in your life. The police officer advising you to avoid the fire hydrant zone can be interpreted as a caution to steer clear of potential hazards or obstacles. The specific drink you wanted, which was enjoyed previously but served in a disappointing quantity, might symbolize a yearning for past joys or experiences that now seem insufficient or unfulfilling.

  The setting of the dance studio and the discovery of a surprise birthday card illustrates a sense of being valued and celebrated, yet you choose to pretend you didn’t see it. This could reflect a modesty or discomfort with receiving attention and accolades. The connection to your alma mater, Dana College, and the activities of Welcome Week perhaps signify a desire to reconnect with past achievements or a simpler time in your life.

  The unusual dessert of sweet gelatin with insects, which you found surprisingly enjoyable, might symbolize the acceptance of unconventional or challenging situations that turn out to be rewarding. The interaction on the bus, particularly with the old female friend and the character resembling John 'Bluto' Blutarsky, introduces elements of nostalgia and camaraderie. The annoyance of other passengers and eventual seat-switching to continue your conversation without disturbing others underscores the importance of direct and clear communication. The anticipation of your birthday celebration on the bus ties back to the theme of being recognized and appreciated, even amidst a chaotic environment.

  Overall, your dream appears to reflect a blend of past memories, current concerns, and future possibilities. It highlights themes of trust, change, emotional connection, and personal growth. Each element provides a glimpse into your subconscious mind navigating through various aspects of life, relationships, and self-perception.

Birthday

Divorce

Insects

School

Dream About Visit To Old Nanny Couple

i don’t remember what city i was. but i know i was in a foreign cities with some of my friends that i went to electric forest few weeks ago. 

we were in a hotel, and my boyfriend told me to get a cocktail downstairs. 
when i went to get it i couldn’t find it right away. so i went outside and walk around and i realized i have walked around the block. when i was walking i feel scared because it was a foreign place i never been before and it was at night time. 
so i decided to go back to the hotel. 
i ran into my friend luis and there was a bar there this whole time. 
the bartender mentioned that the strawberry drink was the most popular one for this week. since he noticed that there’s a lot of “our kind of people” are staying at this hotel. 
in my dream i was having a hard time to read the menu so i went with the drink the bartender recommended

The dream was moderately coherent, though it had some disjointed elements like not finding the bar initially.

Lost in a Foreign City

The dream felt quite tense and anxious, especially when walking around the block in an unfamiliar area at night.

The intensity was high due to the fear and anxiety of being lost in a foreign city at night.

The dream had a somewhat realistic feel, particularly the interactions with friends and the bartender.

The dream was quite vivid, with clear details about the hotel, the bar, and the bartender's recommendation.

Diana, your dream starts in an undefined foreign city with friends from a recent trip to Electric Forest. This setting suggests a mix of excitement and unfamiliarity, possibly reflecting your current life stage where you are navigating new experiences and relationships. The hotel represents a temporary state of rest or transition, indicating that you might be in a phase of personal growth or change.

  When your boyfriend asks you to get a cocktail, it triggers a journey that symbolizes a search for something. The difficulty in finding the cocktail could represent challenges or uncertainties you face in your relationship or personal pursuits. The fear you felt walking around in a foreign place at night highlights deep-seated anxieties about the unknown and stepping out of your comfort zone. This part of the dream suggests that while you are willing to explore new territories, there is an underlying fear of losing your way or encountering unfamiliar challenges.

  Encountering your friend Luis upon returning to the hotel signifies the importance of familiar faces and support systems during times of uncertainty. The bar that was there all along but unnoticed might symbolize resources or solutions that are available to you but not immediately apparent. This suggests that sometimes, the answers you seek are closer than you realize, and turning to your trusted circle can reveal these hidden supports.

  The bartender's mention of the popular strawberry drink and 'our kind of people' staying at the hotel speaks to a sense of belonging and community.

Abroad

Night

Scared

Dream About Foreign City Hotel Cocktail Bar Friends Night Time Scared

I lived in Spain with my family, which consisted of a father and five siblings. We lived under a sort of points system. You earned points through good behavior, and these points acted as money. With points, we could pay for and buy drinks at the club. More and more children kept coming to our house because our father took in anyone who needed a home. As a result, we lived with a lot of people in a very small space. There were many children in a very impoverished house. I slept with many others in a room at the top of the house. Then we went out. After going out, we walked home, and a boy who was albino walked with us. He looked a lot like someone from a series I watched. I said to him, "Do you know Ian Gallagher from the series Shameless? You look like him." He replied that he was visually impaired, so he couldn't watch series. My so-called sister wanted to kiss him, but he rejected her. When we got home, that sister couldn't find her phone anywhere. She was also a primary school teacher and had drawings from primary school children in her hands. Another sister drank blue Fanta that was in the fridge. Then suddenly, I was at work. A new colleague joined us. She looked like someone I knew from Ex on the Beach. We then received a bonus from Raymond for our good work. I got €42.99. Raymond joked with me, saying, "Then you can get a new tattoo, Jake." My new colleague asked if I had many tattoos, and I said, "Not really." Then I asked her the same, and she said she had a small tattoo and showed it to me. I was shocked because it was the exact same tattoo that I had and in the same place. I showed mine to her, and we were both in shock. My tattoo was quite faded, but you could still see it.

The dream was somewhat coherent but had fragmented shifts from home life to work.

Living in Spain with a Points System

The dream had a mix of emotions including surprise, shock, and a sense of community.

The intensity was high, especially during interactions with the albino boy and discovering the matching tattoos.

While the dream had realistic elements like family dynamics and work, the points system and some events were quite surreal.

The dream was quite vivid, with clear details like the blue Fanta and the exact amount of money received as a bonus.

Jake, your dream paints a vivid and intricate picture of your subconscious mind, brimming with rich symbols and narrative threads. Living in Spain with a father figure and numerous siblings under a points system that acts as a form of currency suggests a strong sense of order and reward within chaos. This scenario may reflect your real-life desire for structure and validation through good behavior, possibly hinting at a need for approval or a struggle to maintain equilibrium in a seemingly chaotic environment.

  The increasing number of children being taken in by your father points to a theme of inclusivity and compassion but also hints at overwhelming responsibility and perhaps a sense of being crowded or overwhelmed in your personal space. This sense of overcrowding and the impoverished conditions could reflect feelings of scarcity or insufficiency in some areas of your life, potentially emotional or material.

  Your interaction with the albino boy who resembles Ian Gallagher from Shameless introduces themes of identity and perception. His visual impairment and your sister's desire to kiss him, followed by his rejection, might symbolize a deeper internal conflict regarding acceptance and the importance of inner qualities over outward appearances. This could be tied to your own experiences with rejection or misunderstood identity.

  The incident with the missing phone and your sister as a primary school teacher holding drawings from children introduces elements of loss, communication, and perhaps nostalgia or a connection to innocence and creativity. The blue Fanta she drinks adds an unusual, almost whimsical touch, suggesting a need for something refreshing or out of the ordinary in your life.

  Transitioning to your workplace, the new colleague from Ex on the Beach and the shared tattoo experience is profoundly symbolic. The bonus from Raymond and his comment about getting a new tattoo hint at recognition and reward for your efforts, while the shared tattoo with your colleague indicates a deep, possibly karmic connection or shared experiences that transcend the ordinary.

Children

Club

Crowd

Tattoo

Dream About Living In Spain With Family Under Points System

In waking-life I have only daughters. 
In my dream I was taking my youngest two daughters to a modelling agency, to see if I could get them signed. The girls were dressed impeccably, with their hair in golden curls and they were behaving demurely and politely. They modelling agency was in an old building, very elegant and refined with polished wood and antique furniture. The women working at the agency were also impeccably dressed and coiffured. There was soft classical music playing. The whole atmosphere was of quiet refinement. 

All of a sudden there was an electric guitar riff that shrieked through my dream, and my heart sank as I knew what was coming - I knew it was my sons (that I don't have in waking life.) From around the corner on the street outside, a double pram careened on two wheels, and raced towards me. Nobody was pushing it, it was propelled by the raw energy of the two toddler boys strapped into the side-by-side seats. They were laughing uproariously, spraying potato chips and drinks out of the pram as they sped towards the agency. They were sticky with peanut butter and other food, their hair was standing up, and they were pure wild energy. I thought "thank goodness theyre strapped in" and was relieved to see that the pram was too wide to fit through the modelling agency doors. I felt no shame of my sons, I was proud of them, but glad they wouldn't be able to destroy the serene environment, that it was safe from their wildness. I turned to the women running the agency, and with great dignity and a genuine smile, I gestured to these wild creatures outside the door and said " ...and these are my boys." They nodded mutely, aghast. I woke up laughing.

The dream narrative was quite coherent, transitioning smoothly from the serene agency to the chaotic arrival of the boys.

The Modelling Agency and the Wild Boys

The dream mixed a sense of pride and humor, especially when the wild boys entered the scene.

The intensity peaked when the electric guitar riff heralded the arrival of the wild boys.

Despite the surreal scenario, the surroundings and emotions felt quite real.

The details of the modelling agency and the wild boys were exceptionally clear and detailed.

Angie, your dream is a fascinating blend of order and chaos, and it reveals much about the dynamics of control and freedom in your life. The setting in the first part of your dream, where you are taking your impeccably dressed daughters to a modelling agency, represents a desire for structure, elegance, and perhaps societal approval. The agency's old building, with its polished wood and antique furniture, suggests a longing for tradition and refinement. The women working there and the soft classical music playing further enhance this atmosphere of quiet refinement, indicating a part of you that values grace and composure.

  However, the sudden intrusion of the electric guitar riff marks a dramatic shift in the dream's tone. This abrupt change signifies the unpredictable and uncontrollable aspects of life that can disrupt carefully laid plans. The appearance of the double pram, propelled by the wild energy of two toddler boys, introduces a stark contrast to the serene environment of the modelling agency. These boys, with their sticky fingers and uproarious laughter, represent the untamed, spontaneous, and chaotic elements of existence. Despite the boys' wild behavior, you feel no shame; instead, you feel a sense of pride. This suggests that you embrace both the orderly and chaotic aspects of your life, recognizing the value in each.

  The fact that the pram is too wide to fit through the modelling agency doors is significant. It symbolizes the boundaries between different facets of your life and your ability to compartmentalize them. You appreciate the wildness and energy of the boys, but you also understand the need to protect the serene environment of the agency from their disruptive influence. This balance reflects your capacity to manage and integrate different energies and roles in your life.

Daughter

Furniture

Girl

Hair

Life

Playing

Woman

Woods

Guitar

Heart

outside

Pushing

Race

Seat

Side

Toddler

Door

Laughing

Peanut

Smile

Thought

Dream Of Modelling Agency Sons Pram

Relationships

End of world

Ex-partner

Family Members

Garage Door

Grund Opening

Home Invasion

Left Behind

Past Home

Seeing Dead Relatives

World ending

Drinking in a dream can represent a desire for escape or a need for relaxation. It can also symbolize excess or indulgence. Pay attention to the type of drink and the context of the dream for further insight.

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