Dream About Reconnecting With Sexually Abusive Ex

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For context, in real life yesterday I got into an expolsive argument with my boyfriend yesterday over him not listening to my feelings and him trying to control the situation. I started the fight but in that realized I’m overplaying my part. So eventually I gave up. I had a dream last night after this fight that I reached out to my ex the sexually abusive one, ig on impulsive or something. I told him to come get me and he came. When I came downstairs to the lobby of my apartment he was there “mingling” as I put it. I saw him and said look he’s mingling, to ig express how different we are. He was playing cards with some ppl I don’t really know. Then my boyfriend showed up and observed our interaction between me and my ex. I had a conversation with my ex and he seemed to be more mature mannered when we spoke. He said he tried to call me. For context after we broke up we would try to get in contact with me from a bunch of random numbers and instagram pages. I was thinking how could I get away with my ex without losing my boyfriend but then my boyfriend said my love are you ready to go and I said yes. Then my ex said goodbye. I know that realistically that my ex is not mature mannered or respectable.