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Dream Interpretation: Abuse 😴 - What Does it Mean to Dream About a Abuse? Discover the significance of seeing a Abuse in your dream 💤 - Get a free dream analysis to find out the interpretation if a Abuse appears in your dream ✅

Abuse
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💡Possible meaning

This symbolizes an imbalance and a lack of consent and respect in your life related to shame and low self-esteem. This dream often occurs in those who have experienced trauma in their waking life and is a ubiquitous symptom of post-traumatic stress disorder. Your mind is trying to release painful and unprocessed emotions through your dreams so they can clean your psyche. If the dreams continue, definitely speak with a therapist.

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🧭 Direction

Bad omen

It is time to begin the work of self-development to reduce your shame and low self-esteem. Find the imbalance in your life and those parts of yourself that are being treated unjustly. Build better boundaries and accept yourself with love and care. You may need to work with a mental health professional during this process if you have a history of trauma.

❤️ Feelings

This dream of abuse may evoke feelings of fear, helplessness, and vulnerability. It can leave a person feeling violated, traumatized, and deeply hurt. The dream may also bring up emotions of anger, resentment, and a desire for justice. The individual may experience a sense of betrayal and confusion, struggling to understand why they were subjected to such mistreatment. Overall, this dream can leave a lasting impact, causing a range of negative emotions and a need for healing and support.

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24 Jun 2024

dream-about-abusive-ex-husband-and-family-dinner-nightmare
Abuse
Daughter
Ex-husband
Family
Fiance
Money

Dream

I was walking with my daughter and we ran in to my abusive ex husband. He was saying I owed him money and if I didn’t pay him he’d make me regret it. For some reason his mom invited myself, my daughter and my current fiancé in for dinner. I was waiting for my fiancé for so long that I ran back home to yell at him. But when I got home my fiancé was sitting on the couch so stoned he had forgotten about the dinner. I was so mad because he knew I needed him to help me stay strong. I was scared to go to my ex’s house alone. So I dragged him back to their house for dinner. When I came in my ex’s mom said we had to eat whatever she gave us because that’s how it’s done in her house. As we were getting our plates I realized that my own family was there, family I love and trust and I didn’t understand why they would be here with my abusers. Then it got really scary because my ex husband revealed he had been cutting open peoples skulls to work on their brains. It was so scary because I knew we were next. But then I woke up.

22 Jun 2024

dream-of-abusive-ex-marching-band-club
Abuse
Ex
Husband
Mother
Restaurant

Dream

The worst and most abusive ex I’ve ever had who I refer to as he who shall not be named. He who shall not be named was a chef in a major restaurant / marching band club? He knew I was there with my mother and husband. He purposely would walk close to me and tried to make our experience as horrible as possible as I tried to hide from him.

21 Jun 2024

dream-about-escape-from-prison-and-pursuit-by-abusers
Abuse
Prison
Brother
Grandmother
Hospital
Jungle

Dream

April 18-19, 2024 ⁃ There was a lot of people…in a pink room? It felt like a prison resembling Boiling Rock from Avatar the Last Airbender ⁃ This was familiar as it’s a continuation of an older dream. ⁃ I remember…breaking out of the tomb and getting caught. ⁃ Then I got enough videos to chance the jungle (which was in India). ⁃ I got out, everyone else started to riot as I grabbed my lil brother Anaje to break out together (he was 8 here) ⁃ We ran through so many miles ⁃ Garikayi chased after us the whole time ⁃ We ran out of the jungle, through farmland with white goats, down the road past a nodding white older woman. ⁃ We made it to a hospital with Garyikayi got on our tail in hot pursuit; as I’ve fought him off several times. ⁃ We made it to the Emergency Room and we asked “which floor to go that connects to Highway 2-70.” ⁃ He told us, an older man. Long wispy white silvery hair in a nurse’s uniform, “1st floor.” ⁃ I thanked him and the elevator stopped on the way down. ⁃ Just above the entrance of the hospital ⁃ We booked it. Garikayi having found us after losing us. ⁃ I ran through the backstage of the kids theater from another dream. Jumped down to the first floor through the stairs. My abusive mother found me and started pursuing me as well. ⁃ We made it out and we continued to run. Through Suburban neighborhoods and all. ⁃ We passed by shops— a woman in a blue maxi gown complimented how beautiful I was. I politely thanked her and kept moving. ⁃ I remember passing by the shop where you get braids and hair extensions- ⁃ Where I passed through a story of mob setting? There was someone…in their 50s who started rioting and torturing the rest of the gang which was slaughtered afterwards. ⁃ He got caught by his boss after killing a woman with a hair pick/comb and he was then murdered by his boss. ⁃ I shakingly and falsely awakened - I found myself in the backseat of Garikayi’s car. ⁃ I asked where Anaje was and he said somewhere in a different city. ⁃ I was going with a foster parent. (I was 21 in this dream apparently) ⁃ The car stops and I see through the window that it’s my psychological and religiously abusive maternal grandmother. She was my new foster. ⁃ I ran out of the door in desperate fear. Through the urban apartment complex neighborhood from another dream. The Black high school girls were getting off the bus and saw me. ⁃ They saw my panicked breathing and hysterical tears. They took me in out of sight to their house which I’d been in before. ⁃ One girl sat me down, while the other grabbed the blueberries from the sink (presumably in a strainer or sieve) ⁃ And I hysterically sobbed the rest of the dream while being held by the first Black girl.

20 Jun 2024

dream-about-fighting-broken-toilet-and-carnivalesque-setting
Abuse
Broken Door
Suicide
Fighting
High School
Hug

Dream

March 21st-22nd, 2024 Not in any particular order- ⁃ Fighting… ⁃ Was in a fantasy like battle with similar game mechanics as Kirby video games? ⁃ My abusive mother was there—someone else…a bf? Maybe Garyikayi ⁃ Was beating both of them as they went after me ⁃ Toilet was broken ⁃ Poop on a paper towel? I don’t know ⁃ Abusive Mother and Boyfriend Garikayi tried to punish me but I did win ⁃ Clones? Armies? Vision started getting blurry ⁃ False Woke up (in dream) in a strange version of the room I’m sleeping in currently. ⁃ Paternal Grandma Neal, Paternal Uncle (Dad’s brother) Arsinneal—David…Abusive Mother was all there. Something initiated a fight cuz I was fighting all 4 of them and decided I’d move into Tai’s early with my partner, Rammy— ⁃ Couldn’t find my glasses so everything was still blurry- ⁃ I’ve won the 4v1 more than once- ⁃ Suicide and murder is mentioned at least once or twice. ⁃ I end up in a carnivalesque setting? In line for tickets? a clown ride? ⁃ High School acquaintance, Reed, was working as employee there- ⁃ I remember going to the ticket booth and feeling my partner, Rammy, stand behind me and protectively wrap their arm around my shoulders. ⁃ Warmly, comforting. ⁃ I couldn’t see them…but I know he was there. ⁃ Rammy was wearing all black…with a black and white grunge t-shirt, Leather jacket, and converse. ⁃ I felt safe. Woke up to my phone ringing. I didn’t answer it.

20 Jun 2024

dream-about-twisted-disaster-and-chasing-the-white-rabbit
Abuse
Angry at mom
Chased
Police
School
Art

Dream

⁃ We were in a school…a warped version of my middle school and the main hall from Albert Einstein High School. ⁃ Climbing stairs to different floors ⁃ TwistedDisaster (Michie) was there? With a promise and coloring character designs ⁃ Someone in a wrap similar to an Arabian Woman but the wrap was fully colored in Gradient rainbow was being drawn. Even outside the lines ⁃ Mrs. Walsh & Mrs. Harris were there as I did this— ⁃ Michie eventually turned me away for any more drawing ⁃ Both art teachers were giving me medicine(?) through my wrist—needles? ⁃ At sole point I started being able to jump floors and stories and land safely with no broke bones and legs ⁃ After awhile I was sent to Mrs Harris again and she gave me another shot ⁃ I was no longer masking. Unable to mask what I’m thinking or feeling, and unable to hold either back. ⁃ At this discovery from saying what was on my mind, I found Mrs. Harris. And she asked, “How do you feel?” ⁃ I let her have it. Explaining how saying what the Fuck I thought all the time was dangerous, how it contributed to my bruises, cuts, and majority of my physical and mental abuse by my mother. I was angry at Mrs. Harris. ⁃ Thoroughly explaining also why I was terrified to speak my mind, as I’m now only way to speak. As it’s caused me to be I betrayed and ousted by several communities ⁃ I see someone in the distance. I chase them like they’re the White Rabbit in Wonderland. He’s been evasive and even managing to trick me and a few others byby disguising himself as a cop. ⁃ The cop was in his normal clothes but I had a “Wait a minute” moment ⁃ Looked behind him and saw the person I was chasing with his hoodie or strung up shirt wrapped around his body like a harness running away as I chased him—hot on his tail again ⁃ He goes one way and I suggest to two others to cut him off at the exit but the longer way. And to be quick about it. ⁃ A white dog with black spots—A Samoyed? Or a very floofy bear dog, I also gently commanded with urgency to pursue the running Individual. ⁃ I also start running. I wake up to David’s dark tabby male cat Lister purrs and loud audio in my headphones. Both are taken care of.

20 Jun 2024

dream-about-abusive-mother-vampire-performance
Abuse
Fighting
Vampire
Bug
Blanket
Pants

Dream

February 18-19, 2024 ⁃ Bugs…There was one that was yellow and black..akin to a murder hornet but something else. A black and yellow skull…a narrow beetle that could fly? But was poisonous? ⁃ Bought my younger siblings something from my wishlist as a surprise. A kid Jeep they could drive around. A blanket for warmth and safety. ⁃ The mailman remembered me when delivering the first package and gave me the items right there as we were at an event. ⁃ I remember such a deep sense of fury and anger. I still feel it. ⁃ My abusive mother tried so many times to take credit for what I did. Raising the kids she had including myself, providing emotional support, and protecting them physically. ⁃ Often enough prior to entering the vampire performance(?) I fought my abusive mother. Throwing her, beating her…truly as much as she did to me. ⁃ We went inside. I Noticed the performers were wearing the things I bought for two young toddler girls…including the pants I had set aside for dinner. ⁃ I remember…One of the performers telling me to put on pants? ⁃ Another performer whose vampire fangs were not so fake after all. Tried to eat from my neck. But I stopped him and left, not from fear but from trust. Thinking I would let him do it later, as I had something to take care of. Which he understood and smiled warmly. ⁃ Abusive Mother called paternal grandparents for reinforcements at dinner. After I had to run around and grab so much stuff that she thrown away and gave to others, these were items meant for the abused and neglected children abusive mother had. ⁃ I was furious and I remember my grip tearing through fabric pillows and tossing said pillows in the dumpster. ⁃ Seeing someone familiar with green YMCA Staff shirt running out the door. ⁃ My abusive mother has reigned in all I knew of folks she thought I knew; and they were trying to hide. ⁃ So I commanded they all come out to hear my story. Starting with how “I had to lie to stay alive in the midst of abuse.” But I woke up before I could finish my sentence past, “I had to lie.” I’m still feeling the effects of fury…indignance…the need to prove myself.

19 Jun 2024

dream-about-family-gathering-and-intervention
Abuse
Suicide
Grandmother
Dog
Blanket
Fruit

Dream

January 15-16th ⁃ I Was migrating with my stuff ⁃ My grandmother having a family gathering ⁃ It ended up being an intervention of sorts ⁃ My former stepfather was there (Garykayi) and I was asking him stuff ⁃ And i asked him about my stuff ⁃ He brought up my suicide attempts as a jab at me. ⁃ I was furious at him bringing that shit to the family, punching him in the arm ⁃ My grandmother and incubator were both there ⁃ “I didn’t want to tell you, because no one here cares about their mental health! Why would you care for mine?” ⁃ After forcing me to explain the circumstances (and I replied with vague answers) I knew it was time to leave. ⁃ I went to go grab my stuff but only bits and pieces were laying around ⁃ I found the dog…pit Bull. He was asleep when I found him, and flinched awake when he smelled me. But he was instantly relaxed and very happy to see me. He was happy with me giving belly rubs and headpats and rubs. He had so many scars around his eyes…his eyes bulged out wild because of the treatment he’d gone through. ⁃ I didn’t want to leave him behind, but I knew if I did my leave my treatment would get worse here. Or worse, the poor dog would die because family sent him away to get killed indirectly. If I attempted to take him with me. Neither result was desirable. ⁃ Went back to the living room. I asked where my stuff was, and no one gave me a straight answer. Folks grinning at my fury like it was funny. ⁃ I walked out to find a way to my Aunt Mary’s. Surely my stuff would be there right? ⁃ There was my grandma house yard. But with trees and fruit growing on the trunks. (Before it was desolate.) ⁃ I went and walked up the stairs to sidewalk. Finding an old comic book abandoned on the stairs. Joker was on the cover…and a couple of dark clad hero’s? Joker in the pose of a puppeteer. I stepped over it and started walking. ⁃ Someone stopped me and told me to go back. I told her I couldn’t and won’t. She seemed to give me some advice while walking with me. Then disappeared. ⁃ Disney festival seemed to be going on. Familiar town square. Finished performing. (I remembered going the opposite direction from my grandma’s house and ended up with dead ends, so I went towards the square instead.) ⁃ Because I was furious and showing it, my walking speed was faster and folks seemed to want to help me. ⁃ I was soon stopped by someone (parent?) Because I had dropped the plushies I was carrying. Not recognizing I had. ⁃ Thanked them before going further to seek a way to my Aunt Mary’s. Or a way out. An exit. Something along the way. But I was stopped because strings were attached to me were pulled taut by corners. ⁃ I then was freed with the help and kindness of others. ⁃ That’s how I discovered in the donations box, there was the blanket I was sleeping with to keep warm. ⁃ I knew my family right then had donated and given away my stuff without my consent and knowledge. Stuff I had rebuilt my life with. Stuff that was given to me to support me through transition. ⁃ Grabbed the blanket and contacted my incubator who happened to be following me. ⁃ “You get one answer. ONE. Where the FUCK is my shit?” ⁃ She gave me a flyer as a response. “Abuse.” Something else… and “total shame.” ⁃ I really hated that. So I threw and broke a nearby beer bottle by throwing it at the wall behind her. Not caring if I was hurt by it. ⁃ Walked back through the square, knowing my stuff was lost for good. Or to spread out for all to be found in time. Which hurt so much as so much of it was precious to me due to sentimental value, gifts and mementos I’ve held onto from friends and folks who supported me. I woke up after that, felt the need to scream in anguish. I wasn’t sleeping well. So dreams were foggy at best; and on and off. Couldn’t stay asleep. I don’t want to fall back asleep.

19 Jun 2024

dream-about-apocalyptic-battle-and-cathartic-healing
Abuse
Apocalypse
Fighting
Mother
Brother
Church

Dream

⁃ Was just me and seemingly incubator and sister and lil brother. ⁃ It was a near-apocalyptic dream? ⁃ “Then the darkness attacked.” (The same vibes of Ba Sing Se in Avatar the Last Airbender episode, “Then the Fire Nation attacked.”) ⁃ I’m Scrambling to buildings and hiding in places. ⁃ abusive younger Sister, Sarah, and youngest brother through marriage, Anaje, get separated from me “for safety.” ⁃ Small creatures join me, including the Pokémon, Jigglypuff, and another gourd-like fella? ⁃ It Goes dark and suddenly I’m half awake in the dream, trying to heal from a bad hit ⁃ “It seemed only the empaths survived” (I’m an empath) ⁃ Incubator, AKA my Abusive Mother, is tending to me. ⁃ Half the small familiars are gone. ⁃ Darkness personified forms in a boss arena. ⁃ We all go to fight it, it begins forming Anaje and Sarah clones. ⁃ Fighting monsters again but I’m kinder to the clones. ⁃ Small creatures and I go to retreat but then the barrier prevents the gourd bean and Jigglypuff. ⁃ Both seem resigned as I cry out in protest that I’d get them through the barrier. But there’s enemies behind both of them. ⁃ Gourd creature tells me to go and that they’d be fine. Pushing me through the barrier. ⁃ I watch as they war cry and go to fight the enemies (consisting of evil Splatoon kids and other black void entities?) ⁃ Both put up a good fight but are slain before my eyes. ⁃ “NO!!” I scream in anguish. Wakes up and go back to sleep. ⁃ I am half awake seemingly but healing better. ⁃ Pick up a blade and go back through the barrier. ⁃ I slay enemies rather coldly. ⁃ Squishy and gooey persona of darkness forms and tries to send the clones from before to kill me but the enemy clones side with me instead. ⁃ Ally (mad scientist? Alchemist? Druid?) comes in as we’re about to slay the boss. ⁃ They grow a plant to bring back balance into the world ⁃ And the Dark boss dies in the process as we praise the ally for cool thinking ⁃ I’m suddenly Transported to a church? Abusive Sister, Sarah, and Sweet Little brother, Anaje, and Abusive Mother, my incubator, recovering from the battle. ⁃ Church ladies and Church Choir are disdainfully looking at me and jeering like pick-me’s ⁃ I grab coffee creamers as one gets close and I pour it on her head and I throw truthful statements in regards to their horrendous behavior. ⁃ I’m told to leave. ⁃ I do, and on the way out I say, “Excuse me.” - The Church Lady responds, “Don’t touch me demon spawn.” ⁃ “Ma’am, respectfully, I’m leaving and you’re in the fucking way. Manners, much?,” I reply. ⁃ I get back to recovering party and tend to their injuries safely. It felt cathartic. But they didn’t seem to recognize or see me. ⁃ I catch a glimpse of the gourd bean or an angel in my peripheral vision.

19 Jun 2024

dream-about-abusive-family-running-to-safety-beach-monsters-and-laser-weapon
Abuse
Tsunami
Arguing
Running away
Dinosaur
Beach

Dream

Dream during the night between December 12-13th ⁃ I was arguing with abusive family ⁃ I was Running to safety (from abusive family members) ⁃ Found safety with someone in their home (tall…lankey, Black: Rammy. They were wearing headphones) ⁃ Beach ⁃ Headphones ⁃ A “System” complaint notification for complaint to Teenager -> me (which was sent by my abusive family) ⁃ Abusive Father Tried to Come in, I saw tsunami wave flooding streets behind them. ⁃ Closed door with them outside and managed to barricade it successfully when the wave hit the door. Water leaked through but then stopped, as I ran backwards. ⁃ Creatures (monster and dinosaurs) with multiple eyes chasing the area to attack us at the safe point ⁃ Summoned my animal or ally monster guides to fight. ⁃ Casted a defense shield for us and those at the higher pier? ⁃ [Rammy?] gave me a weapon to slay enemies, a bazooka Laser cannon? ⁃ Corrupted Dinosaurs came and I figured the weapon out and slayed them ⁃ We started heading up the hills, vision got a lil distorted ⁃ Looked up and saw a couple of guard towers akin to Iron Giants (They were 2 Iron Giants! They were only able to see their heads turn toward my direction before trees obstructed my view) ⁃ A corrupted triceratops (with multiple eyes) came up as we got to the hilltop behind trees ⁃ I fired my laser weapon and slayed it. It was falling and disintegrating into flaky miasma when I woke up. ⁃ @Thechrisbarnett was there?? He was receiving scrutiny, I don’t know.

17 Jun 2024

dream-about-crush-visiting-childhood-home
Abuse
Abandoned home
My crush
Jealousy
Friend
Kissing

Dream

My crush who lives in another state went to come visit me. We were in my old childhood home for some reason that was run down, old, small, and generally unpleasant. I remember feeling embarrassed about him seeing it. There was also a lot of people living there including my moms ex boyfriend who used to abuse me and my siblings physically and emotionally. Each room with a rusty broken door lead to someone in my life, current or past. My crush looked more handsome and striking than I thought he would look and I felt nervous and shy the whole time. My old childhood friend was also there. She was a natural beautiful dirty blonde that stole a room the second she walked into it. Her and my crush met and I felt they had an instant connection which stung a little bit. I tried brushing it off so that me and my crush could still get along without him suspecting I have a crush on him. But it felt crushing watching them do everything together and I was left out. They went to go change into pjs and brush their teeth together down stairs while I stayed upstairs and waited for their return. When they came back I went downstairs to do the same thing. Only I came back upstairs to find them kissing in my old childhood bedroom. The stopped as soon as they heard me entering the room and pretended as if nothing happened and I tried doing the same. My old childhood friend ended up leaving so it was just me and my crush which I was hopeful for. We started some flirty banter back and forth like we usually do and I gestured to them kissing in my room awkwardly and he just brushed it off. He then said something meaner to me which I’m very used to since we just tease each other all the time but I was taking it too seriously and I left my room and went down stairs almost waiting for him to follow me and try to make things right. He did follow me but it’s like what he said was already forgotten. I was also changing my outfit so many times. To the point where I even questioned why I packed some things. Either it didn’t fit me, it was old and dirty, or just didn’t look nice on me. I looked fatter in everything I wore and felt so unattractive in front of my crush. We ended up planning to make and produce a movie for the rest of the time we were there. We finished it and I remember we were filming the final end credit scene and I had to put on this ver attractive form fitting dress but I had trouble putting it on and my crush tried helping me. As soon as he touched me it was like I was putty. My childhood friend came along to find us in a precarious way but I don’t think she even noticed. But I still stood back from my crush just in case. It was like I was invisible when she was in the room

16 Jun 2024

dream-about-flying-plane-ocean-relief
Abuse
Airplane
Ocean
Teacher

Dream

I was in a plane. More specifically I was in a DHC-3 Otter. My passengers were all people who had hurt me in life. They were teachers, community members, and other authorities who had ignored my abuse growing up. The man who abused me was also a passenger. I take off out of Boeing Field in Seattle. I head northwest to the Pacific Ocean. Once I am over the ocean I open the back door of the plane causing all of them to fall out into the ocean with no parachute. I decide to fly back to Seattle as the sun sets with sense of finality. I land back in Seattle feeling relieved.

14 Jun 2024

dream-about-sister-cat-cemetery-fried-chicken-fight
Abuse
Cat
Fighting
Pool

Dream

Moving through different planets we ended up on one that had a house my sister and I lived in, in Tennessee. We used to live there with my aunt and uncle, my uncle who sexually assaulted both of us was not in the home nor was my aunt who encouraged it. There were restricted areas in the home that I was granted access too but not my sister momo. One room being the cat cemetery. It had all the previous cats of the home- roughly 15. All cat grave cubbies had a little cat bed. I could see each spirit of the cats as I passed by; not remembering they are the ones who have passed I reach out and pet them. When I goto leave the room my sister gets really upset with me that she couldn’t go in. We both walk out on the balcony/porch and below I can see the ping pong tables and chairs. Some one brings out fried chicken wings and she starts scarfing them down. We get into a disagreement about how she can’t just do things - she has to see the bigger picture. The family takes my side and that makes her even more angry. I agree to fight her as long as she promises she won’t hurt the family. We set up a small kid pool to not tarnish the land. Then as we are filling the pool with water it begins to grow uncontrollably, going from 3-4 ft to about 50ft of pool space. I remember seeing a grave with a large memorial.

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