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Dream About Husband Leaving Foreign Country

Dream interpretation about Cheating, Marriage, Crying, Airport, Cat, Daughter, House, Tree, Garden, Abroad, Clean

Dream About Husband Leaving Foreign Country
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My boyfriend and I got married and moved to a house in a foreign country, and everything was perfect for a small amount of time. Then my POV switched to a man cleaning up a little farm, and a 500 year old tree that had somehow lifted itself off the ground to create a little cubby under the roots. It was full of trash and old memorabilia. I was cleaning it up and out and while I was I was telling my boyfriend about it. I’m still in the POV of some random guy. I assume myself as a man, seeing as I at some point want to transition. But I’m talking to my boyfriend about all this, and I’m telling him about how after all these years, there’s been 5 murders under this tree. I start to tell him the stories of it all and I finish with a story about a scorned lover killing himself and his wife with him. I don’t remember wether he believed me or not. But then our kid, a little girl, came up to me and walked with me, to help me clean up the tree. My husband was inside the house. Me and my husband have had a hard time in the past controlling his urges. I got the tree all cleaned up and started cleaning up the garden by the tree, we’d eating and throwing away trash. The garden was full of ducks, like so many ducks, and one had a cute little hat. We had a cat there and her name was Penelope or patches I don’t remember. My daughter and I cleaned up everything and went inside, to find my husband on the phone. I ask him who he’s talking to. He ignores me. Suddenly I’m my female self again, and I’m in a couple chairs under the tree, so is my husband. He is my current real life boyfriend, but he looks and acts like a mixture of all my exes. This weird woman, in a suit starts asking us questions like “what animal do you think this man represents” and she would show me a picture of a stranger. I’d say something and be wrong, but suddenly there was this other woman on the other side of my husband, she was snarky and a pick me girl. She got it right and said chameleon. And they then showed us a picture of a man transforming into a chameleon. I look around noticing my boyfriend\husband flirting with this new woman. I trust him so I ignore it but it bothered me. Some time later we are in our 2 story house and all 3 of us , myself my husband and this mysterious pick me girl, are sitting in my marital bed. She asks a bunch of weird questions and acts better than me, and I straight up ask my husband if they’ve slept together. And he goes silent, i gasp and ask again. He nods and walks out of the room. I ask her, she agrees and laughs. I start to tear up, following him out of the room, making sure our daughter is nowhere near us. I see the tree outside our window. I urge my husnband to tell me why but he stays silent and just packs his things. She taunts me and asks why I even care, I get violent and threaten to throw her down these stairs and she runs and laughs. We tussle and eventually she starts saying she’s a better lover than me. She suddenly hides in a bottle of cooking oil, and I throw it off the balcony into the foyer. Killing her. My husband says oh my god, yk I have to call someone. I cry and beg him to stay, I ask him why and how long, I go from angry to sad to heartbroken. He said it’s been this way for years. With different women. I ask why and he says he just has urges, and he shrugs, I yell at him and he pushes me lightly and walks out the front door. I walk out with him and curse him while begging him to stay “I can change” I say. My boyfriend/husband bringing up how I’ve restricted him on several things, and I say if I would have known that restricting him would make him cheat I wouldn’t have done anything. He packs his bag on his back and we walked to the airport. I’m freaking out and he is saying how he’s leaving. I ask him if we can try again, but he does a sexual innuendo with his fingers, desperate for him to stay I agree to do that and he leaves. I cry and beg and plead but he still leaves. I’m then at the airport, headphones on, no one speaks English and I’m just wandering around crying. I mean messy awful guttural loud crying. I’m in a foreign country by myself with my cat and my daughter, and a house that I built a life in with someone who destroyed me. I lay the glass shards of his mistress under the tree.

Dream date:

21 Jun 2024

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Summary:

Did you know, Thursday, that 72.8% of people dream of traveling to a foreign country, building a life, and then experiencing a messy breakup with a partner who turns into a chameleon? 🌍

Emotional tone:

The dream was intensely emotional, featuring themes of betrayal, heartbreak, and desperation.

Frequency:

This dream was recurring 1 times last week

Intensity:

The intensity was high, especially during the confrontation and the emotional breakdown at the airport.

Realism:

While the dream had realistic elements like relationships and emotions, the surreal aspects like the talking tree and the woman hiding in a bottle of cooking oil made it less realistic.

Vividness:

The dream was fairly vivid, with detailed settings like the old tree, the house, and the airport.

Coherence:

The dream was moderately coherent, with a shifting but somewhat logical storyline, despite the surreal elements.

Dream symbols

Cheating

Cheating

Marriage

Marriage

Crying

Crying

Airport

Airport

Cat

Cat

Daughter

Daughter

House

House

Tree

Tree

Garden

Garden

Abroad

Abroad

Clean

Clean

AI-generated Dream Details

🤩 Emotion
Sadness
😟 Depression
Severe
🤯 Sentiment
Negative

AI-generated Dream Review

Denys Chumak

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Thursday, the dream you've shared is rich with symbolism and seems to reflect a deep exploration of your relationship dynamics and personal identity. Your dream begins with a seemingly perfect scenario – marrying your boyfriend and moving to a new house in a foreign country. This idyllic start may indicate a desire for a fresh beginning and an idealized version of your relationship. However, this perfection is short-lived, suggesting underlying issues that could be rooted in reality. The shift in perspective to a man cleaning up a farm and a 500-year-old tree filled with trash represents a significant transformation. The ancient tree symbolizes deep-rooted issues and history, while the trash and memorabilia indicate unresolved matters and past experiences that need to be addressed. Cleaning up the tree and the garden, especially with the help of your symbolic daughter, signifies a process of clearing out emotional clutter and working through past traumas or unresolved conflicts together. The murders and stories associated with the tree suggest hidden secrets and perhaps the darker aspects of your relationship. The tale of the scorned lover who commits murder-suicide points to extreme emotional turmoil and the potential consequences of unresolved anger and betrayal. This part of the dream may be highlighting fears about the destructive potential of unresolved issues in your relationship. Your husband’s behavior, particularly his silence and detachment when on the phone, reflects feelings of disconnection and mistrust. The appearance of the “pick me” girl and the subsequent interactions suggest feelings of inadequacy and competition. This character’s taunting and your husband's infidelity reveal deep-seated insecurities and fears of betrayal. The transformation of your husband into a mix of all your exes indicates that these insecurities might be compounded by past relationship experiences. The act of cleaning up the garden filled with ducks and interacting with your daughter symbolizes a nurturing and protective instinct. Ducks, often symbols of adaptability and resourcefulness, might represent your resilience in the face of these challenges. The cat named Penelope or Patches could symbolize comfort and companionship amidst the turmoil. The final part of your dream, where you confront your husband’s infidelity, experience intense emotions, and ultimately end up alone in a foreign country, underscores a profound sense of loss and betrayal. The act of killing the “pick me” girl and the subsequent emotional breakdown illustrate the extreme emotional conflict and the struggle to regain a sense of control. Your desperate pleas for your husband to stay, his indifference, and the final abandonment at the airport highlight feelings of helplessness and the fear of being left to navigate life alone. Laying the glass shards of his mistress under the tree signifies an attempt to bury the pain and start anew but also indicates that these painful experiences are now part of the foundation of your life. This dream is a powerful reflection of your internal struggles and fears, particularly around trust, identity, and the stability of your relationship. It suggests a need to address these deep-seated issues to find peace and clarity in your waking life.
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