Kelli, your dream presents a fascinating tapestry of themes related to autonomy, tradition, and emotional nourishment. Living in a time where women had no rights and serving a man who wasn’t your husband highlights a feeling of constraint or lack of control in some aspects of your life. The man’s harsh demeanor and your limited privacy may symbolize a sense of being underappreciated or undervalued in your current environment. However, the moments of peace when you were alone suggest that you find solace in solitude and self-reflection.
The setting of a dinner party or holiday with a few other women introduces the theme of community and shared experiences. Holding a decorated glass and the older lady’s advice about teaching crafts to younger people, even though your kids are now adults, might reflect your desire to pass on your knowledge and traditions, despite feeling that your primary role as a caregiver has shifted. This indicates a longing to remain connected and impactful within your community or family.
The incident where a woman you know changed the TV channel by accident, causing you fear of repercussions, yet nothing bad happened, illustrates your internalized anxiety about making mistakes and the surprising relief when those fears are unfounded. This could be hinting at a need to reassess the actual versus perceived consequences of your actions in your waking life.
Receiving a bag of treats secretly, with the implication that someone liked you, and your confusion over its meaning, points to a desire for affection and validation that may feel somewhat unfamiliar or elusive to you. Your contemplation about having a refrigerator to hide the food underscores a wish for personal space and the ability to enjoy small pleasures without fear of judgment or reprisal.