Dream About Lucid Dreaming And Fears

I was in my apartment and heard all of my neighbors gathering outside near my property managers unit. I went outside and asked what's going on and they said somebody died but when I asked who it was they told me it was some random person from down the street and i was like oh okay, that's unfortunate but at least it's not one of the neighbors. I then plugged my nose and tried breathing through it and I could and that's when I knew I was dreaming and I became fully lucid. I was just looking around for a second and tried to ground myself by spinning and looking at my feet but when I did I felt so tired and couldn't and I just woke up. When going back to sleep I was focusing very slightly on the third eye area but not too intense or pinpoint but just kinda like started to fall into the space from my forehead to a deeper space in my mind and could feel a larger space behind my eyes and then fell back into the same dream. I was in my backyard area which was much more flat. The neighbors that i dont like, their fenced off area was gone and so were there units and it was just a bunch of concrete. I did my nose pinching technique and breathed and it allowed me to become lucid again. I then did my grounding technique where i look at my feet with my arms out and spin and this time i pushed through with energy and was able to stablize the dream. I then saw my neighbor Vanessa and my property manger Erika and I took them into Erika's apartment which turned into a small rv once we got in her place. It was very messy and stuff all over the place. We went back to her bedroom and the TV was on we laid in the bed, I asked, what are we watching? I think she said matlock or some other old show. Vanessa got under the covers and started giggling and foundling Erika while Erika and I started kissing. She had 2 piercings on her tongue which she doesn't have in waking life. Before we could take it any further I woke up again. I did the same technique and was able to get back to the dream and did my lucid technique and was aware again. I then realized I have better things to do and knew I needed to speak with my subconscious. I saw a guy dressed in black clothes and a tan trench coat like some inspector gadget spy. I somehow knew he represented my fears and as soon as I called out to ask his name he ran. I chased him. I got in my car following him in his and it became a top down videogame style. I was weaving around traffic like crazy crashing here and there but plowing through like gta. We got out and he ran up this apartment building. Vanessa was there and I asked if she knew his name and I'm she said that she thinks it was something like Arnold stolvin or something like that. I started yelling out to him using his name and then next thing I know I'm in a room with 2 super hot girls. I was messing around charging the shape and size of my penis making it huge and tiny and all kinds of things just for fun. It was like I was designing it in a videogame or like I was sculpting it like pottery. I then got it to a size and shape that wasn't ridiculous, much closer to normal and I started having sex with one of them. She was the chubbier one and I was getting super close to climax but was able to keep it right on the edge and keep going. I ended up waking up before I could finish and it was 8am at that point so I decided it was time to get up for the day.