Dream About Lost Love And Choices

Another very deep dream. I was with someone and we were really in love. I made a kind of a treasure hunt for him to go on. We went on it together kind of. It was like actually the treasure hunt was on a T-shirt, but there were other things planted around what felt like a school environment. We decided we were gonna be together and we made plans to be together on a Thursday night. Then I remembered that I had plans on Thursday. I was a plus one on a ticket to see this band that was like a mix of Simon Lebon from Duran Duran and some other bands. The other band was The Clash. I had been given the ticket, but it was. I was also gonna be on a like a date, but not a date date it was like they had an extra ticket and I was gonna get it and be sitting next to this person, but we didn’t know each other. Anyway, somehow it was Thursday and I told my boyfriend I had plans that I completely had forgotten about. He was upset. I was like, “oh shoot I’ve got these plans”. I think a family member had set me up with getting the extra ticket. Then suddenly it’s Thursday and my boyfriend and I are standing outside of the event hall and the guy that I have the ticket/date with shows up. I said, “hey I’m your plus one.” He was a very snarky little man who was full of himself. My boyfriend‘s attitude completely changed. He ended up introducing himself to the guy, who was a small, thin man. Then my boyfriend went into this story about it being the anniversary of his father‘s death, and he got very emotional. He basically made me choose between going to the show or being with him and I chose to go to the show because it was Simon Le Bon from Duran Duran. But then I got really upset that I hadn’t chosen my boyfriend and he got really upset that I hadn’t chosen to go with him. And then I became really desperate to prove to him that I loved him. A messenger came to me and told me that my boyfriend wanted to see me in a room 138 or something like that the ballroom that the event was happening in was taking a long time to kick off. So I tried to find him and when I did, he told me how upset he was and How I had to choose again. So I went about trying to find the man with the ticket and let him know that I wasn’t gonna be joining him. So then the dream shifts and within the same facility I was invited to I was having lunch or dinner or something with Cassandra. I think it was Cassandra my stepsister. We got seated at this tall table where the table was taller than our heads and so we could see each other from under the table and we each got a glass of wine and I knew that I was sober, but I tasted the wine, but then I had to go because I had to fix the situation with my boyfriend. When I finally made the choice and caught up to my boyfriend, then everything shifted again and he was so like disrespectful of me like I needed help and he wouldn’t help me like with the laundry. The washing machine was really cool though. The basket was small so you couldn’t put more than three or four items into the basket, but you could see through it. You could see the laundry go through its whole process like after the wash, it would drop the items being cleaned down into another section and then you would use that to dry the clothes and it was really just kind of cool. It was like almost a giant portable washer dryer system. Anyway, Cassandra wouldn’t help me. My dad wouldn’t help me. It just became really frustrating. I had no support after I’d given up the ticket. The atmosphere of the dream was very like solid with gray tones. At one point my dad and I had gone to this market. It was very sparse though. It wasn’t like a market like I’m used to. He could only pick a few items and oh we got to the checkout and the checkout lady completely skipped to my dad‘s order. So she had to pull his one item out of this order that somebody else had made and check him out. He may not have been my dad. It could’ve also been, I don’t know, either my boyfriend or another relative but it could’ve been my dad too.