Dream About Dominance And Control In A Bus

The dream started in a dark arcade. There, I met a girl who I wasn't sure was dominant at first — I was hesitant to follow her. She initiated our conversation by acting all interested in me romantically. By the end of our interaction, she clearly became more dominant and started kissing me while pinning me to the floor. It felt intense and emotional. I felt really good, and fulfilled. Also, I love dominant women, not submissive ones. After that, we got on a bus. It was full of African or African American people, and I met the girl’s mom, who was really kind. Strangely, the mom transformed into an African American woman. As the bus began to move, it started to shrink somehow. Along the trip, a group of teenagers decided to go into an expensive mall and destroy property. But then, an older woman leading the bus explained how serious the consequences could be — that in the country we were in, people could be killed for that kind of crime. The teenagers felt remorse and decided to run away and promise never to do something like that again. This part of the dream reflected a shift in my real-life beliefs: > I used to think that criminals deserved to be overly punished to make the world safer. Now I focus more on the idea of fixing people rather than punishing them — helping them grow so they don’t harm others again. Later, the dream transitioned into a common theme I’ve had before — I had to take control of the bus, and it started to feel like I was losing control, but this time, I noticed I had more control over the dream than in the past. That sense of control felt empowering