Dream About Being Late To Party

I’m hosting a bunch of people over my place which is pretty unfamiliar for my birthday party. There’s all these people there some are old co-workers or friends of friends. Some folks I don’t recognize. After the party one of the guest made a reservation for my birthday dinner. There’s a fixed menu and everyone must wear pink or blue. So everyone leaves to go to dinner and I plan to be there fashionably late. But I can’t figure out what to wear and I still have to my hair and makeup. I put this dress on and when I go to the bathroom it gets really wet while I’m trying to use the bathroom for my hair I think. I try to sit on the side of the tub but everything is wet. I go back to my closet and put on this dark blue dress with big flowers on it with some of the flowers having pink in it. I haven’t zipped it up yet. I go to the other room where my sister Jenny is getting ready I ask her to help me with my hair and makeup. She begrudgingly agrees to help with my hair she’s still working on her own makeup. I have my natural hair out and everyone I put it up in a puff I don’t fully like it cause my natural hair shrinks like Black natural hair does after being wet I want it to be large, fluffy with defined curls. I keep on trying to fix the puff but it keeps on shrinking after being set for a bit. Finally my sister helps me with my hair and she puts the puff a different way which makes the puff kind of smaller but we puff it up and I know the curls won’t stay defined so I ask her to help me twist the ends. She complies there really large twists. My mom is also in the dream getting ready to go on a date with my dad. They got this cool deal to go on a date to have Haitian food, free parking and something else for $400 something dollars which seems expensive to me but for some reason it feels like a big deal. So they decide to go. Btw irl I never seen my parents ever go on a date my entire life and now that my parents are older and are sick they just stay at home all day in their room unless they have a doctor’s appointment. Anywho my mom is getting ready to go on this date which is also different to see because in my waking life my mom’s glaucoma now doesn’t allow to see that much and she needs a lot of assistance sometimes she’s asking for more help than she actually needs but she feels like she needs it and my dad enables it. My dad isn’t in the dream only mom getting ready. Back to me after we twisted my hair I ask my sister to help me with makeup she told me to just put powder on cause we’re really late i asked her earlier about my dress she wasn’t sure how I feel. I’m not feeling good about I so I go in my closet trying to find something else a lot of the dresses I’m picking out to wear are floral dresses. I know im extremely late at this point and worried about how my guests will feel about my extreme tardiness. My sister also mentions to me I thought you said you don’t have a lot of friends and there was a bunch of people over and a bunch of people at the restaurant waiting for me I told her most of these people are close friends just folks I invited and some I invited to not feel left our because I invited the other. Earlier in the party I was mingling and talking to a lot of people the folks I remembered mingling with are white people. I also remember my old work bestie (Kimberly she’s a white woman) from my job back in Boston being there trying to help me with getting ready for dinner later. I wake up still trying to get ready and knowing I’m going to be extremely late which also in my waking life I tend to run this extremely late so this isn’t that odd for me.