David,
This dream seems to reflect your current anxieties and struggles, particularly those connected to your relationship and the sense of frustration you feel. The all red crunch berries commercial could symbolize a craving for simplicity and enjoyment, which is quickly overshadowed by more pressing concerns in your life, such as the recurring arguments with your wife. It's interesting to note that you take a step recommended by therapy in your dream, which indicates your deep commitment to improving the situation and your relationship, even when you feel misunderstood or your efforts seem futile.
The sarcasm from your wife in the dream suggests a feeling of being undervalued or not taken seriously, even when you are making an effort to accommodate her needs. Your concern with the accidents involving your new car may represent deeper issues of control and responsibility within your relationship. The fact that you didn't inquire about her wellbeing after the accidents in the dream may point to an internal conflict between your frustration and concern for her safety, which is an emotional complexity you're likely dealing with even when awake.
The shift to a stormy sea and a broken building in your dream is a strong metaphor for the current state of your relationship as you perceive it—unstable and surrounded by emotional turmoil. Your wife's desire to go to the highest point could reflect your fear of her taking drastic actions or the potential escalation of your shared issues.
Considering your previous dreams, there seems to be a common theme of challenges and feelings of isolation. Whether it's dealing with the legacy of a pet's passing, navigating sexual tension, or facing exclusion from a group, these experiences might be contributing to a sense of unease that manifests in your dreams. Your subconscious appears to be grappling with these complicated experiences, trying to find resolution or understanding.
David, this dream vividly captures the emotional landscape you're navigating. The intensity of it being a nightmare, combined with your therapy sessions, indicates that these are pressing issues for you. It's crucial to continue addressing these feelings, and perhaps, see how the strategies from therapy can be adapted or reinforced in your waking life. The connection between your dreams and your real-life experiences is strong, and it's evident that your subconscious is processing many of the emotions and challenges you're currently facing.