Dream About Boyfriend Leaving For Friend Before Work

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My dream was about my boyfriend Nick. He told me that his coworker and friend Will would be picking him up extra early the next day so that the two of them could go do something together before going in to work. Which would leave me home alone, seven months pregnant, caring for our two year old toddler alone. I felt upset about this, but didn’t express those feelings FULLY, only minimally. In my dream we were living in our old home in Middlefield again, which was our dream location, but also where we both endured a lot of dark times. So after telling me his plans to hangout with his friend, and ensuring me I could trust him, he grabbed a bottle of wine and filled up a to-go coffee mug with the wine. That set me off completely and I just lost my temper. I started screaming and yelling at him, telling him not to come back, that I would be gone, etc. I remember trying to cry in my dream to show him that I was feeling very hurt, but no tears were coming. I KNEW that I was being crazy, but had no control over myself. Then, my old boss of eleven years Hiroshi came knocking on my door. I was surprised to see him since he moved to Hawaii, but I let him in. Hiroshi was trying to ask for my assistance with something on his phone, and I could barely keep my attention because I was still fuming about Nick. When Nicks ride got there to pick him up, I threw another fit, secretly hoping that he would change his mind and not go hangout with Will. It didn’t work. I refused to say goodbye to him, I said mean things to him, and he left with Will.

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29 Apr 2024

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👧 women of your age from 🇺🇸 had dreams about Pregnant by 783.6% more than 👨 men.

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Feeling of hurt and betrayal towards boyfriend for making plans with friend and leaving pregnant and caring for toddler alone.

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This dream was recurring 1 times last week

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The emotional intensity was high, with feelings of anger, hurt, and betrayal dominating the dream.

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The dream mixed elements of past and present, including old home and former boss, which added a sense of surrealism to the experience.

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The dream was fairly vivid, with clear recollection of specific events and interactions.

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The dream narrative was somewhat fragmented, transitioning from emotional outbursts to unexpected appearances of old acquaintances.

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Denys Chumak

Cherylin, It seems your dream reflects a blend of anxiety and unresolved issues manifesting in your subconscious. The presence of your boyfriend, Nick, and the emotions tied to him leaving for a day suggest a fear of abandonment or a struggle with the idea of being left to handle responsibilities alone, especially while pregnant. The setting in Middlefield, a place of both dreams and dark times for you, likely symbolizes a mental crossroads between past trauma and hopes for the future. Your reaction to Nick's departure, particularly the inability to cry, may denote a sense of powerlessness or frustration in expressing your vulnerability. Hiroshi's unexpected arrival could be your mind's representation of an external interruption or obligation that demands your attention despite your emotional turmoil. This could parallel real-life situations where you've had to put aside your own feelings to cater to others' needs. The dream indicates a deep-seated concern for trust and support within your relationship, particularly given the past legal and familial challenges you've faced. Your previous dreams, one involving a significant change and crying, and another about a potential romantic interest, seem to echo themes of emotional release and longing for connection. Both dreams hint at a desire for something new or different, but also a hesitation to fully embrace such changes due to real-life fears and responsibilities. The intense life events you've experienced, including the traumatic incident with your mother, the subsequent legal battle to regain custody of your children, and the betrayal of trust by Steven, are undoubtedly influencing your dreams. These traumatic experiences can often lead to feelings of distrust, the need for control, and a heightened emotional state, all of which are evident in the dream about Nick. Your dream indicates a deep need to process and find stability amidst the chaos of past events. The upheaval you've lived through may leave you craving security and fearing its loss, which is amplified by your current pregnancy—a time when support is crucial. It's natural for these emotions to find their way into your dreams as your mind works through them.