Marilyn, I can see why this dream was so unsettling for you. Dreams where a loved one, especially a child, is in danger can provoke a strong emotional response, signaling deep-seated anxiety or fear regarding the well-being of those we care about. In your case, the image of your daughter falling from a broken porch can be symbolic of a perceived threat to her safety or your fear of not being able to protect her from the challenges she may face. The broken state of the porch could represent instability or insecurity you might be feeling in your role as a guardian or in your home life.
The intensity and negative feelings of this dream, combined with its categorization as a nightmare, suggests it has had a profound impact on you. It's possible that current stressors in your life, perhaps related to family matters or your daughter's well-being, are manifesting in your dreams. The fear of a significant ‘fall’ or failure, whether it's related to your daughter or a metaphor for something else in your life, seems to be a recurring theme that is deeply affecting you.
Reflecting on your previous dreams about a broken toilet covered in poop and an intrusion while you were in the bathroom, there might be a thread of vulnerability and exposure running through your subconscious. Bathrooms are private spaces, and dreams involving them often point to things we wish to keep personal or issues regarding our innermost feelings. The addition of the mother and son walking in on you, along with a fox that ran off, could suggest an intrusion of privacy or unanticipated surprises disrupting what is normally a very private area of your life.
Considering both dreams together, it seems your subconscious might be processing feelings of vulnerability, exposure, and protection—whether it's about your own privacy or concerns for your daughter's safety. It's important to reflect on what aspects of your waking life may be influencing these dreams, especially factors that might be causing you stress or anxiety.
Marilyn, your dreams suggest a strong emotional undercurrent that may be worth exploring further, especially since they are recurring and intensely negative. While they are personal reflections of your subconscious, understanding how they relate to your waking life can provide you with insights into your emotions and help you address the sources of your concerns. Please feel free to share more details or other dreams you've had for a deeper analysis.