Dream About Cooking Oil Splashing

I ask about a cooking oil and gdt told thar my question about using it in stir fry was stupid. This oil ends up splashing on me and the person selling it says that I should have worn darkwr clothes but I went to the event not knowing that I'd cook. Also a friend gave me a drink that would increase in volume when you drank it because she didn't want it. O came across an article about Charles Melton always being compared to other Asians. The event involved going to the place choosing your ingredients in there and making a meal.