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How Does Sex Impact on Sleep
Denys Chumak

Denys Chumak

27 Nov 2024

How Does Sex Impact on Sleep

Sleep. It’s one of those things we all need, yet many of us struggle to get enough of. A good night’s sleep is essential for physical and mental well-being, but there’s one thing that can potentially help improve your sleep: sex. As surprising as it may sound, sex can actually impact how well you sleep.

I’ve always been curious about how various activities affect sleep, so I decided to dig into the science behind it. It turns out that sex, particularly with a partner, has some fascinating effects on sleep. From reducing stress to increasing sleep quality, the connection between sex and sleep is something worth exploring.

Key Takeaways:

  • Sex can improve sleep quality by helping you fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer.

  • Orgasms, whether through sex with a partner or masturbation, play a crucial role in enhancing sleep.

  • Sex releases hormones like oxytocin and prolactin, which promote relaxation and sleepiness.

  • Studies suggest that sex before bedtime can be more effective than sleep medication for some individuals, especially those with insomnia.

  • There is a difference between partnered sex with orgasm and masturbation when it comes to sleep benefits.

Sex Affects Sleep

I used to be a person who struggled with sleep. Whether it was stress from work or just overthinking, falling asleep often felt like a battle. But there was one thing that I noticed always seemed to help me relax: sex.

Whether alone or with a partner, it felt like I could switch off my mind and drift off into slumber more easily. But, could there actually be a scientific explanation for this?

Turns out, there is.

Why Does Sex Make You Sleepy?

The science behind why sex makes you sleepy is quite interesting. When you engage in sex, your body releases several hormones, including oxytocin and prolactin. Oxytocin, also known as the "love hormone," plays a major role in making us feel relaxed and content. It reduces stress and promotes feelings of calmness. Prolactin, another hormone released during orgasm, is known to contribute to feelings of fatigue and sleepiness.

These hormonal changes create a sense of relaxation that helps your body unwind and prepare for sleep. This is why many people, including myself, find it easier to fall asleep after sex. But, what does the research say?

The Research: Does Sex Improve Sleep?

Based on multiple studies, it seems that sex indeed affects sleep in a positive way. A study presented at the SLEEP annual meeting found that 75% of adults with insomnia reported better sleep after having sex before bedtime.

In fact, most respondents felt that sex had a more positive impact on their sleep than sleep medications. The idea of using sex to improve sleep quality seems to be gaining more recognition.

Research also indicates that sex improves sleep by reducing sleep latency, which means it helps you fall asleep faster. One study showed that sexual activity, particularly with a partner and resulting in orgasm, led to improved sleep quality and a faster time to fall asleep. Interestingly, masturbation with orgasm wasn’t found to have the same effect.

So, it’s not just any sexual activity that leads to better sleep – it’s the kind that involves orgasm, preferably with a partner.

Will Sex Help You Sleep? The Gender Factor

It’s also interesting to note that the effects of sex on sleep can vary between genders. While studies found that both men and women experience better sleep following partnered sex with orgasm, there was a stronger negative effect of sexual activity without orgasm in men. This suggests that sex without climax may not have the same sleep-promoting effects, especially for men.

That said, I’ve noticed that the mental and physical intimacy shared with a partner before sleep often leads to a deeper sense of relaxation, regardless of orgasm. Whether it’s the cuddling or the close connection, it feels like a shared experience that calms the mind and prepares it for a restful night.

How Sex Affects Sleep Beyond Orgasms

While orgasm plays a significant role in making us feel sleepy, the simple act of physical connection can also promote relaxation. According to Dr. Amer Khan, a sleep specialist, the release of hormones like oxytocin, dopamine, and progesterone during sex can lead to a feeling of relief from stress. This hormonal shift makes it easier to turn off the busy mind and drift into sleep.

Moreover, sex can help reset your emotional and physical state, making it easier to sleep deeply through the night. For example, after a particularly stressful day, I’ve found that engaging in sex with my partner helped relieve tension and reset my mood, making it much easier to sleep soundly.

The Sleep Benefit of Masturbation

What if you’re not in a relationship or don’t have a partner? Does masturbation have the same sleep-inducing effects? The answer is a bit more complicated. While research suggests that masturbation with orgasm may not have the same effect on sleep as partnered sex with orgasm, there’s still evidence that self-pleasure can improve relaxation and sleep quality. Masturbation leads to the release of the same hormones that sex does, which could potentially promote sleep.

Still, it seems that the combination of physical and emotional connection found in partnered sex has stronger effects on sleep quality. That’s why some people, including myself, feel that sex with a partner tends to be the most effective way to relax and prepare for a restful night’s sleep.

Expert Opinions on Sex and Sleep

According to Dr. Khan, the release of oxytocin during sex is a significant factor in improving sleep quality. This hormone not only contributes to feelings of affection and well-being but also helps reduce anxiety and stress. In fact, a study published by the University of Ottawa suggests that engaging in sexual intercourse before bed can decrease stress levels and help insomniacs sleep better.

Moreover, a 2017 study from CQUniversity found that over 60% of adults reported better sleep after sex leading to orgasm. This points to the importance of orgasms in the overall sleep-promoting effect of sex.

For women, estrogen levels rise after sex, which enhances REM sleep – the most restorative stage of sleep. Meanwhile, for men, prolactin levels increase, leading to a feeling of fatigue that’s conducive to sleep.

Conclusion

So, will sex help you sleep? In many cases, yes. Based on both personal experience and research, it’s clear that sex can improve sleep by helping you relax, reduce stress, and release hormones that promote sleepiness. Whether you’re having sex with a partner or engaging in solo pleasure, the act can have a positive impact on your sleep quality.

In fact, for those struggling with insomnia or poor sleep quality, sex might be a natural, side-effect-free alternative to medication. But, like all things, the experience of sex and its effects on sleep can vary from person to person. Still, it’s worth considering that if you’re having trouble sleeping, a little intimacy could be just the thing to help you get a better night’s rest.

If you want to learn more about dream concepts and dream analysis, be sure to check out DreamApp, an online dream interpretation tool.

FAQs

1. How often should I have sex to improve my sleep?

There’s no magic number, but making sex a regular part of your routine, especially before bed, can work wonders for your sleep. Focus on what feels natural and enjoyable for you—it’s about quality, not quantity.

2. Can sex help with insomnia?

Absolutely. Sex can be your secret weapon against insomnia. The rush of feel-good hormones like oxytocin and endorphins after orgasm relaxes your body and mind, making it easier to drift off into dreamland.

3. Does masturbation improve sleep?

Yes, solo sessions can help you relax and unwind, especially if they include an orgasm. While partnered sex may have a slight edge in sleep benefits due to the added intimacy and oxytocin, masturbation can still be a great way to calm your mind and prepare for restful sleep.

4. Can stress affect my ability to sleep after sex?

Definitely. Stress can sometimes overpower the calming effects of sex, making it harder to fall asleep. But here’s the good news: the hormonal boost from sexual activity helps lower stress levels, giving you a better shot at a peaceful night.

5. Does sex help everyone sleep better?

Not always. Everyone’s body reacts differently—while some find sex to be the perfect sleep aid, others might feel more energized. Factors like mood, hormones, and overall health play a big role, so listen to your body and do what works for you.

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