Dream About Cleaning Childhood Friends Room

Nicki, this dream appears to be a rich tapestry woven from your past and present experiences. Starting with your journey to your childhood friend's house, the 'weird way' you took might symbolize the unconventional or complicated paths your life has taken due to various life-changing events. Revisiting your friend's room and cleaning it could signify your desire to return to simpler times or to 'cleanse' aspects of your past. The act of your friend leaving and her mother telling her to do so, only for you to discover she left because of your presence, suggests underlying feelings of rejection or abandonment that may still linger from your youth. Speaking with her mother and brother and discussing 'stuff' might represent your need for closure or understanding regarding past relationships and family dynamics. The presence of your husband and the guy your friend dated in high school, and their confusion about why you were cleaning, could reflect your current relationships and the confusion or lack of support you feel from those around you. Their repeated requests for you to leave might underscore feelings of being unwelcome or misunderstood, both in your past and present interactions. This dream might also be touching on themes of guilt or responsibility, as you were the one cleaning the room, an act often associated with penance or making amends. The inclusion of your husband in the dream indicates that these feelings might be affecting your marital relationship, perhaps hinting at unresolved issues or misunderstandings that need addressing.